Ashes White (xBunnyWolf) Offline

Dom for sub

So I went into a BDSM room yesterday and had the audacity to question why someone felt the need to put their title of what they supposedly are in their name. Apparently this resulted in said "dom" getting his panties in a bunch because I huwt his wittle feewings, and blocking me from said room.

So... rant started.

Anyone who feels the need to have Master/Sir/Dom/Lord/etc in their name, is not a Dom. Not in any way shape or form should these people own ANYONE. These people are kinksters playing at being dominant and that's fine. But don't claim to be something you're not.

I don't care if they claim to have submissives offline or if they have 50 on here, they're fake. And anyone who wants to argue this point, can feel free to message me and we'll discuss the merits of anyone who feels they deserve to be addressed by a title before they actually own the person they're wanting said title from. Please. I'm begging you. Message me about it.

And the people on here that I know that feed into this bullshit are just as bad.

"Oh he has Master/Sir/ blah blah in his name, he MUST be legit" or "He capitalizes it when he refers to himself like 'Me/My/etc' because he's so dreamy and deserving and..."

Excuse me, I had to go gag.

This is what I picture going on in these so called Doms brains.

"Someone wants to have a varying opinion than me? Wants to question my motives? Oh, better block them because having an actual discussion with someone lower than me on the totem pole is like actual work. And, well, everyone knows that BDSM is all about 'My' pleasure, not work. I mean, seriously, who has time for that shit? Now, drop down, crawl over here, and lick my digital shoe, slave!"

This is essentially what happens, because God forbid people actually think for themselves.

And what kills me, is when I go on these rants, like yesterday ten people will message me in private and be like "Oh I agree with you completely." But not a single one of you will voice it in the room because you're fucking weak. Weakness breeds weakness and that's exactly the type of shit that allows these pricks to continue doing this. It's what allowed them to start it in the first place.

So do me a favor, grow a fucking backbone and rather than following someone else's bandwagon. Stand up for yourself and what you believe in IN FRONT OF THE PEOPLE OPPOSING IT.

You want to be a submissive? And I mean a legit submissive, not the shit I see on here - stand up for yourself. Make the Dom/me work their ass off to be deserving of your submission. Because anyone who knows fuck all about BDSM in its true form knows the submissive holds the cards. You call the shots. And for fucks sake, make them prove that they are worth you, because - and I can't stress this enough - YOU ARE WORTH IT.

You want to be a Dom/me? And I mean a legit Dom/me not like the ones I see on here - Encourage the submissives on here to stand up for themselves. Be a person worth their submission, not some douche in a room that can bark orders. Anyone can do that. Be honest, tell yourself you want to see people in healthy relationships and provide that when the time comes. Don't sit back on the sidelines to avoid confrontation because you're too much of a pussy to stand up for what's right.

The thing is, and I don't say this lightly, I'm about two steps from deleting this account entirely. The only thing that's keeping me here is that I can't contact some of you in any other way. Rich