Current RoomsFriends | ULFFLU to slytime: way nice work. Looks good. 2 days ago • Report • Link 0 slytime: thx 2 days ago • Report 0 ULFFLU to pipelayindude: where is your tired arsh. I know you are busy bro, just thinking of you. Come back when you have the time. Ulf ULFFLU to xS0L0x: Solo welcome back, you are a good person. Don't take on more than you can handle, and be careful who offers you advice. I have no problem forgetting the past, and i am hopeful others learn that we all go through times when life is problematic and overbearing. Your friends are still supportive of you.... but pick your friends carefully my friend. ULF xS0L0x: While everyone was thinking I was dead, I was actually maintaining a stable, healthy life. Living in a nice house with my best friend, with my own California King super comfortable massage bed! Working in management and simply didn’t have the time or energy to be on wire. Life is everything you make it!!! You can literally wake up and make everyday a good day, but the choice is yours!!! I choose happiness peaceeeee and love!!! Thanks 😊 ULFFLU to BiJockDoc: Bro you do not know Matt or his room as i have experienced them. Matt has never attempted to resolve the issue, and others in the room only continue to propagate his misconception about me. Matt has blocked all communication with me because he does not wish to be accountable and responsible for the harm he has done. I have requested he come to the table, but he has not even the courtesy to respond. Each person in that room continues to be filled with anger, hate, and a desire to degrade me further. Matt knows he is not at all living up to the alleged purpose of the room, and blocks me from revealing facts (not opinions) about him that feels i would reveal on line. So no, I am not starting a drama, but i will not bury it as you suggest. It is unjust, and wrong. I will periodically remind Matt of his own history. All Matt needs to do is PM me, and if the room is accepting as he claims, unblock me. We will differ on this bro. ![]() BiJockDoc: OK, i wash my hands. One last suggestion, you can block him, no need to go his room. You guys do not like each other so why bother. Confrontation is not necessary. This is not that important, what others say about you is not as important as what you know is the truth and who you are. You do not have to justify anything to anyone but yourself. Block Him and whoever else, out of sight, out of mind. I known you for a long time, who you are is important, not what you may try to present to others Your a good person, so Is Matt, JoelBklyn in reply to BiJockDoc: Ryan, your point is well taken and valid...but *perhaps* only up to a certain point. Despite all (alleged) evidence to the contrary, I believe that both Matt and ULF (considering their affectionate past) still sincerely like one another...still have warm (but obscured) feelings for one another -- I'm certain ULF does for Matt -- and, as a result, they have both been hurt grievously from all this confrontation and misunderstanding. Sometimes when you feel you are unable to reach out lovingly to a former friend, the only OTHER (unfortunate) way is through anger and hostility and threats. ULF is willing to reach out to Matt and openly and honestly discuss the issues before them. Matt, however -- for whatever reason -- seems unwilling to do so. Matt has also seen fit to block all communication with me, and thus I am banned from entering his room. A few of the others in his room, who were former friends of mine, have also blocked me from communicating with them. The basic reason for this is not because I've done anything specifically to hurt them...it is because of my unflagging support for ULF during this unnecessary warfare. ULF is my friend! Based on his goodness...his intelligence...his insight into and compassion for others, I shall remain his steadfast friend. I still love and miss Matt for the goodness I have always seen in him. I am willing to take him back as a friend at a moment's notice...without explanation...without apology...without even a single mention of past events from either one of us. And I value your special friendship, {{{Ryan}}}, as much as I value theirs. Love, Joel ULFFLU to BiJockDoc: Ryan, you will never understand all the issues so please do not comment on this. I know Matt, and will remind you that; The devil (Matt) can cite Scripture for his purpose. Matt is presents as a good apple but rotten at the heart. He knows how to reach him. Please stay out of this because you don't know the entire facts. ![]() ULFFLU: this is dedicate to Matthomas, Sal Fortunato, Dylan, silent witness, and of course Garadon. They are such models of gay bisexual life that their rooms usually have between2-4 people. If you wish to be degraded or humiliated or dominated go to their room. Here is a song for them from my heart... particularly to Matthomas the spiritual hypocrite JoelBklyn: I'm saving THIS one...forever! Thank you, ULF, for reposting this incisive little song...SO LETHAL SOUNDING to anybody who DESERVES to hear it...and (hopefully) LEARN from it. View all 4 posts ULFFLU in reply to HarryMason: had to pose... but i am holding a blade.... so this douche will take you bro..... smiles Harry thans for the comment. Ulf |