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ALL WE NEED IS ❤️



Ever had those days where you feel that life is not fair because you don’t have material things to which you feel entitled?
Well, there is a show that I am binge watching and tge message which is coming across loud and clear is that…we humans need love; as babies we need to be hugged and cuddled; we need to be protected and cared for…

There are demonic adults out there who call themselves parents; family members; significant others; people in authority , who are molesting our children and causing them to have bad lives.
A lot of them resort to drugs to kill the pain because they know of no other solution.
I don’t agree with using drugs in an effort to kill emotional pain…BUT WHO AM I TO PASS JUDGEMENT? ITS NOT MY HEARTACHE… ITS THEIRS.

The show is so heartbreaking to watch!!!!

So next time you see a homeless person out there, be kind. Don’t look down on them.some of them were actually we.. and as tge old saying goes: “BUT FOR THE GRACE OF GOF GO I!”

I have just watched the testimonial of one woman, and even though she was not on camera I could hear her practically screaming that she just needed a hug… and she was crying.
Her life’s story was beyond tragic. Yet, all she needed was that hug.

As that popular George Harrison song goes:
“ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE.”

“LOVE IS ALL YOU NEED”


The name of the shoe is , SOFT WHITE UNDERBELLY
Check it out..

Peace and love
Ugly…….

YOUYOUNG MEN IN PURSUIT OF OLDER WOMEN... THE BUILT-IN EXIT STRATEGY

A rather perplexing question, to say the least!,

I have always wondered what their angle is! Why would some beautiful, sane, young stud even consider the notion?
Well, while channel -surfing today, I heard a discussion on that exact topic...and one of the points which was made, caught my attention...and made me go....hmmmmmm.

Among some of the explanations were the following:
...The older woman has greater appreciation of the younger man
...Unlimited sex without the fear of fathering a child.
...The maturity that the older woman brings to the table....and much more.
However the point that caught my attention. and got me thinking, was one that never entered my mind. ...the 'built-in' exit excuse.

The constant fear of most older women who involve themselves with younger men, is that the man will leave for more fertile ground, as she ages...and that is where the excuse comes in.

According to the individual who was sharing the information, he has been told the same thing by many a young man who had tired of the relationship, or after it had run it's course. When I ponder their logic, it makes sense to me.

Finally, I had my answer. It makes perfect sense to me, now. It is an answer against which no older woman has a defense!!!..It's an answer which allows the younger man to walk away without argument or protestation from his older partner.

And here is the "built-in" exit excuse:
I AM THINKING OF ONE DAY HAVING A FAMILY, AND NEED TO FORGE RELATIONSHIPS WHERE THAT IS ACTUALLY A POSSIBILITY.

The above is not an exact quote, but ...I am sure that you get the gist of it. There is hardly a sensible 'comeback' to that!

So, to you, lovely cougars out there...be on your guard and don't get too comfy as you settle in with your young lovers. At some point, the "newness" will wear off, and they will gallop off to greener, more suitable pastures.

...AND UNFORTUNATELY, THAT'S LIFE!!!!

So when you jump into t hose relationships, make sure that it is with eyes wide open!!!!!!!!!!

PEACE...

UGLY.....


































I LOVE YOU JUST THE WAY YOU ARE...



"Don't go changing, to try and please me… I love the color of your hair…"

Those are the words from a very well known song by Billy Joel... and those words ring so true!
Today when I took the picture that is attached, I looked at it and I thought of the words from that Billy Joel song...And I thought of how very judgmental people can be. We are always worried about being judged for our physical appearance and whether or not we will be accepted as we naturally are.

Also, especially these days in the era of social media where everyone has this driving need to look perfect because they understand that the 'judgement police' are constantly around...physical appearance, seems to be of premium importance.We all seem to be criticizing each other's appearance...and are hardest on we, ourselves.
To that I say, "poppycock" !
. I am here to say that we just need to stop it

So my thoughts were… So what if you're fat? If you're too skinny? So what if you have some gray hairs? So what if you don't perceive yourself as being attractive?
So what, so, so what? So what???

In the end, all that counts is how a person makes you feel,... and the shared good vibes.
So my final thought on this is in the words of that very same beautiful song by Billy Joel…
" I love you just the way you are."
That is how we should all train our minds to think. Just love people the way they are, and look for the good in them, and the sweet in them and the honesty in them and wonderful In them.
And personally speaking if anyone cannot just accept me the way I physically am… They can just keep on stepping!

Ps... and no, I did not write this message because I have low self- esteem...au contraire, mon frere!
....I JUST WANTED TO SHARE MY STRENGTH!...and because I love... the color of my hair

Live life
Love life

Peace,
Uglybetty1

NAKED AND OLD...OH STOP IT!!!!!


: ...GOOD GOD!
NO ONE KNOWS HOW TO CHAT ANYMORE!
IT IS UTTERLY FRUSTRATING!

WHY DO PEOPLE THINK THAT CHATTING CONSISTS OF SIMPLY A Q & A WHERE THEY TRY TO EXTRACT MY PERSONAL INFO???

WHY DO OLD MEN FEEL THAT TRYING TO ENTICE ME BY DESCRIBING THEIR NAKED BODS, WILL GARNER THEM THE CHANCE AT A CHAT?

THIS RANT OF MINE IS ACTUALLY AIMED AT OLD MEN WHO PROBABLY STILL FEEL 'MENTALLY YOUNG'...OR HECK, LET'S CALL IT WHAT IT IS..."HORNY"
IT IS A BAD ENOUGH THAT YOUNG GUYS WANT TO SHOW OF THEIR "ATTACHED MEMBER" TO US LADIES...BUT WHEN SOME OLD CODGER MAKES THE OFFER,,,,IT IS KINDA GROSS!!!!!!

AT LEAST, IF WE ACQUIESCE, THE YOUNG MAN'S MEMBER IS SOMTIMES ATTACHED TO A HARD BODY, AS OPPOSED TO A FLABBY BEER BELLY...OR WRINKLED BODY.
SO MY ADVICE TO YOU ALL, IS TO 'THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK'.

AND FOR GOD'S SAKE,OLD MEN...COULD YOU STOP DESCRIBING YOUR NAKEDNESS TO ME AS YOU LAY IN BED...OR ENTER THE SHOWER!
AGAIN...IF I HAD TO PICTURE SOMEONE'S NAKEDNESS, I WOULD RATHER THAT IT BE THAT YOUNG STUD!

WATCHING A NAKED OLD MAN IS QUITE A TURN OFF!!!!
I AM 100% SURE THAT NO ONE WANTS TO SEE ME IN THE BUFF, EITHER...NOT UNLESS YOU WANT TO GO BLIND!
THERE! I HAVE ADMITTED IT!

SO, LET'S END WITH THIS:
A PRUDE, I AM NOT! BUT JUST AS YOU OLD MEN DONT WANT TO SEE OLD CHICKS IN ALL THEIR GLORY....NEITHER DO WE OLDER BROADS, WANT TO SEE YOU... IN YOURS!

SO STOP BEING TACKY!!!!!.
KEEP YOUR CLOTHER ON!
STOP TRYING TO HAVE US PICTURE THAT GHASTLY VISUAL OF YOU, IN A STATE OF UNDRESS.

WE CAN DO WITHOUT IT!
AND PERSONALLY SPEAKING, FOR MYSELF, ALL THAT I HAVE TO DO, IS TO SAY THE WORD AND ONE OF MY YOUNG STUDS WILL BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO ACCOMODTE ME BY REVEALING HIS GLORIOUS NAKEDNESS..

SO, GOOD LORD, OLD MEN...STOP IT! I AM NOT TRYING TO GO BLIND!


PEACE
UGLYCOW...

CATFISHING..

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I have just done some serial -viewing of the TV show Catfish. It is so heartbreaking what people do to each other without thinking of the ramifications

Those people who pretend to be .other than who they they really are, need to be psychologically evaluated!
The emotional destruction that they cause and that they visit upon others, is totally unforgivable....and they always have the nerve to expect their victims to be understanding and forgive them.They always have a sad-sop story about how they were abused, abandoned or bullied.

To all of you catfishers out there.. .YOU ARE A BUNCH OF LOWLIFE SLUGS WHO DESERVE NO ONE'S SYMPATHY!!!!!!!!\
All that you do is to create havoc and heartbreak. You are all psychologically unsound!

If you are fat, ugly, unpopular or feel unloved....DEAL WITH YOUR ISSUE! Go seek professional help and stop messing with people's life. You are all a set of selfish assholes and I hate it when Nev and Max (the hosts of Catfish) extend their sympathy.

Here are my parting words of advice to those of you who have been catfished or are currently "in love" with some asshole online....99.9% of the time...THAT IS NOT THE PERSON TO WHOM YOU ARE TALKING !!!!!!!!! Good looking guys and gals do not need to come here looking for love....PEOPLE THROW THEMSELVES AT THEM, IN REAL LIFE.\

Most people on here are just ordinary folks looking for a good chat because they are lonely or passing time.

So next time you chat, if the person is too stunning- looking; or a surgeon; or a well known performer; or a model ... put on your "anti-catfish hat. The simple fact is this: IF IT FEELS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE...IT JUST MIGHT NOT BE TRUE. Always trust your God-given instincts and those vibes that you feel.
I know that is is difficult to walk away from good looking profile picture with the great chats, but as soon as you question the validity of that picture....JUST PROCEED WITH CAUTION...OR BETTER YET, JUST WALK AWAY, AND IN SO DOING....PROTECT YOUR HEART.

ON BEHALF OF ALL OF MY "FINE LIKE AGED WINE" COHORTS, HERE ON THE WIRE....





MY credo is : because you get up there in age, it does not mean that you have to let yourself fall apart and look like an old biddy.

If you do not have serious health issues which would impair you from engaging in the activities that you enjoyed in your youth.... .you should absolutely continue to indulge in them all. them all....even intimacy and romance....if that still is your cup o' tea !

Life does not end because you get a few wrinkles, grey hair....and your body is not as tight as it used to be.
So what????? Is that a capital crime?????
Should you be shunned for achieving longevity?
My resounding response to that is...."hell no" !!!

It is simply the physical change...the price you have to pay for being fortunate enough to outlive a bunch of your cohorts. That's all.

So, to hell with all of the haters who look at all of us cougars with disgust and disdain.

I have recently chatted with a young male who was singing my praises....loved older women...blah, blah blah! He claimed not to care about age because, as the corny, overused line goes, (altogether now, ladies)...."age is just a number"
Yes...sure! Of course! If you say so , young man!
He then proceeded to badger me for my age...which I subsequently revealed to him.., and what a shocker! He could not run for the hills fast enough!
What a phoney! What a fake! What a liar he was!

I bet that a lot of you are sitting there thinking that I am talking about you!

So.... to all of the men out there, be you young or old...if you are not a true lover of older females ...don't play the immature games and utter the empty words about "loving older women because they are more experienced",...yada, yada!
By the way, that simply tells us about your intentions.

Psssssst! Listen up!
We older women are not whores.Neither are we easy! So, do try to adjust your warped impression of us. Quit thinking that we need to be grateful because some of you young guys pay us attention. If that is how you feel about us, I have two words for you.....

I am in a chilled mood, so i will resist the urge to say that the two words are, "fuck off" !
I shall be nice and say, "shove off", as my Brit pals would so classily put it.

My most awesome chat pal ever...he never once asked me my age, neither did he care! We just shared a certain energy...and we took it from there and just enjoyed the chat to the utmost...and it was heavenly!
I loved it, and could not get enough of him and his carefree, laid back attitude...and yes, he was a responsible guy, as well.
He was a one of a kind How I wish that there were more of his ilk on here...A remarkable young man, indeed....

For now I am just living life, loving life...until I drop dead.

So if you want to enjoy chat with an awesome older woman and you have no stupid hangups about the age thing....here I am!.
Feel free to hit me up.

Leave the games, immaturity and insults on the doorstep....and please...do step on into my parlour......f you dare!

EMOTIONAL ABUSE...

Once you arrive at a sense of self and truly understand who you are, and how you want to be treated....therein lies your strength!. Most individuals have more intestinal fortitude than they themselves think.

Also, there is nothing like a solid friend or family member standing by your side to encourage you and to show you how to keep things in perspective.
I personally have learned, at the ripe old age of "ole ladyhood", that everyone has an opinion, and that unless it is a reasonable and fairly well thought- out and balanced one....DO NOT EVER ACCEPT ANY NEGATIVE OPINION THAT ANYONE HAS OF YOU.
You are the president of the acceptance committee when it comes to opinions about yourself...and it is a lifetime office/position !!!

For the emotional bully,negative press, in the way of uncomplimentary opinions, is one of their major tools that they use in their effort to crush your self-esteem, and to bring you to your knees.
if you truly know yourself, you will never accept any of that rubbish from them.....
Remember....you are the president of the club of opinions !!!

TAKE TIME TO KNOW YOURSELF.. MOST IMPORTANT, TAKE TIME TO UNDERSTAND THE EMOTIONAL GAMES THAT PEOPLE PLAY....ESPECIALLY THE WEASELS WHO TAKE PLEASURE IN TOYING WITH YOUr EMOTIONS...just a thought.

When I, myself experienced that total epiphany....I felt liberated and triumphant....a true Goliath, of sorts......

Take it from this ole broad, there are lots of emotional bullies out there, and the quicker you learn to beat them at their own game....the better off you will be.
Once I understood the bully's game, I learned to play it well. NO longer was I willing to be brought to my knees in tears; humiliated & beaten down emotionally.
I became a gladiator and fought a good fight ...like a female Spartacus...and you too, can do it.
Time to rise like a Phoenix from the ashes of emotional degradation and and abuse and shame..

Charge into the New Year of 2016 like a fiery bull, running the streets of Pamplona, Spain...crushing everything in their path
Be unstoppable
Be a force to be reckoned with!

And on that note, lets have a drink !
i raise my glass to to all of the downtrodden , emotionally abused men and women out there. Grow some balls and get ready for the good fight
Learn what it is like to be victorious and to feel triumphant.
Throw off that coat of self-pity and don the mantle of Goliath, of Spartacus...

BOTTOMS UP & HAPPY NEW YEAR!
BE STRONG......


ugly

THE INTERVIEW



So, where shall we begin?
Aaaah yes! Those unnecessary, intrusive questions from strangers to whom I might not even wish to speak.

Why do you think that you, a perfect stranger has the right to all of my personal information in the form of an interview. ....you strangers who most of the time don't care to divulge anything of yourself?
Getting my drift, so far?
Good! Stay with me!

Any reason why you cannot just begin chatting?
You must have chosen me for a reason!
Oh, pardon me...you chose me because you needed to know my age; where I live; if I like sex; if I like younger men; my line of work; my salary., etc.

Pay attention!
You don't even know my name or if I might agree to chat with you
O, pardon me again!
Let me try to understand the reason for the interview.....
You, a perfect stranger are going to interview me tn order to determine if I am a worthy chat pal.....? Ha!
Is that about right???

Ok, strange people, if that is your intent when you come to court me for conversation, you may pass me by. I refuse to be the interviewee.
Just tiptoe on by. My feelings will not be hurt.!

Unless you are going to interview me for some fab job, I totally have no interest in your intrusive questions or participating in your interview!
Therefore, get a clue and stop trying to gather people's personal info prior to chatting with them.
Most of we sane chatters, detest it.
Asking all of those questions will guarantee you , no chat !!!!!

Desist !!!!!! Desist!!! Desist!!!!



uglybetty

AGEISM



I am absolutely trying to comprehend why people are so hung up on age....and cannot proceed with chat unless they absolutely know it!

After all, it's the content of the chat that counts.....not the age of the chatter!

I will absolutely barf if another person asks me ASL... and if no response from me, they have a hissy attack...and get their panties all twisted !
OOOPs! pardonnez-moi! ...not panties but "tighty-whities !

Yes boys....desist....cut the crap!

Most of all, mind your manners. it is not cool to ask a lady her age...dig ?it?????

Besides, am not here to find a date....just to enjoy some casual, clean, cool, chat with anyone who cares to do the same...of they have the skills, that is.

So stop focusing on the "age thing".

And by the way, if you want to know how old I am....come closer and listen up.....
...I am as old as the tastiest, most rugged, sparkling wine or champagne that has ever touched your lips.... in order to be that fine, those wines have to be old and well aged....JUST LIKE ME !

I am old and chilled, just like those fine wines.

So next time you want to know how old I am...just roll your eyes across this rant of mine....and think of me, as that surprisingly delightful wine that you are about to taste....

Goodnight boys.....




To me, old age is always fifteen years older than I am.
Bernard Baruch