45/mwm (married white male)
I have chatted a long time and on various sites. I am open to talking to women over the age of 21.
I only add women to my friends list. While I can have a good banter with guys in a room, I prefer keeping it just that. So men, don't invite me to be friends.
Chat is good conversation. Conversation is where a friendship begins and where it flourishes. If you cannot carry a conversation, why chat?
I do not look for anything exclusive, but a good connection among many. This is an outlet for me and a place to have fun.
Truth be told, I accept friends from any age, race, height, weight, etc. If you have nice toes* and wear hoop earrings that is a plus!
I prefer drama free interactions. Am not interested in room hijinks or selacious gossip. Maturity is a must. And if you look good in yoga pants that helps too.
I am a non-drinker, non-smoker and non-drug user.
Two general rules...
#1 I am always innocent
#2 I always behave
*Please do not expect me to like YOUR feet just because I like feet.
**As a special bonus for actually reading my profile, if you PM or message me with the words "blueberry pie", I will give you a : bighug :.
TurnerEight: Friends List Analysis
18 current friends.
Pilnk some off, add a few. Seems to hover around 20. Here are thoughts on each.
Two are fairly new and dont have a clue about them yet
One is wordy wise and shoe helpful
One is silly, fun, and exciting
One is fun but not around much at all
One is fun in the room but not much of a talker privately
One has been a help, but have i been as helpful?
One i have had ups and downs with
One is lots of talk but no action
One is fun and cute but busy
One is mysterious and confusing just wish they would talk more
Two are wordy only
One i dont know a single thing about
One is close but sometimes seems so far
One is funny but we never talk
One is a wordysmith but gone awhile
Another wordy friend just focused on wordy
One seems fun but havent seen much behind the curtain
TurnerEight: If you could receive a list of all the people who ever liked you/had a crush on you since you were 21, would you want to see that list?
Or what if it was simply a list of those who thought you were handsome/pretty; would you want to see that list?
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