I'm looking for someone who isn't shallow or closed-minded, one who I can actually have an intelligent conversation--a mind connection with.

The ability to converse isn't learned from books or college, it's confidence, often based on life experience, a belief, hopefully something you are passionate about. That is what I care about--your passion for whatever it is you love, no matter what it is.

At the same time, appreciate that I might not agree with you, and that you might not agree with some of my choices, likes, desires. Doesn't mean we cant get along--just means accepting ones differences and embracing them.

I need you to love music, of all kinds, including the music of today. Without it, I think I might die. And that can mean classics, R&B, rock, pop, metal, dance, funk, electronic...all. I want music that moves me, music that makes me want to move.

If you are against equality for all, and I mean ALL--too far left or right, you will NOT make it in my world. Just speaking my truth, as I need balance. I need those around me to have a positive attitude too, and if you don't, I will toss you into the negative abyss that I will not allow to infiltrate my life.

Oh, and please don't taint my world with your drama right off the bat... Yes, I care, but I'm not a psychiatrist.

On a final note? Don't even think about contacting me if you are homophobic in any way, as I will spit you out like venom. Yep, I feel that strongly about it. As a matter of fact, I want you to have actually been with a man--and enjoyed the experience. Yeah, I just said that.

Take me or leave me, as I have no expectations, just know I am a very giving soul, one who has much compassion, love to give. Yeah.....