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sasagirl: My boyfriend has never given me a birthday or christmas gift...in 5 yrs of dating....money has been tight for him...but he is doing much better now, what do I do if he doesn't give me anything...I have basically financially supported him for years?

sasagirl: My boyfriend never makes me a priority.....he lives with his elderly parents,,his dad has Alzheimer's really bad and cannot be left alone....my guy is the best with him....he has 5 siblings all that live w/in minutes from the home....buy they never get there hands dirty, they never help out,,,,they don't care that he has a realitionship too,,,,,and he has 2 older kids from a previous marriage to be with.....but he never puts his foot down....we always make plans to go away...and never do,,,,he is always needed at home.....he works hard and do I,,,we a both boston paramedics,,,,I am fed up

sasagirl: I need advice, my boyfriend of over 4 years, having been waiting on a judgement on a lawsuit for over 3 years, today we found out he lost. He is 55 and has nothing, suffers with depression from the stress of everything. We are destroyed by the outcome, how can I make him move on with his life....how do you start over at 55 with 3 kids?

sasagirl: Boyfriend problem......I llove him, he can be a wonderful man, but he is consumed with his problems, they are major problems, and I help him in every way, advice, money etc.... But he never thinks of me, if I break up with him, he wouldbe on the street, hungry, alone, he has 2 kids he is paying support to.....our relationship will never go anywhere, we are older ,late 40's....my head says get out, but my heart says stay, we have been together for 4 years, through major life altering events.....what do I do ?