Friends | pridewolf43: Ugh, why can't I find someone that isn't already taken?? 10 years ago • Report • Link 1 crisshep: sorry 10 years ago • Report 0 pridewolf43: its okay its not your fault 10 years ago • Report 0 heartfeltdestiny: Hey, I don't really know you, but I read your blog post and I'm just gonna say this... You have to figure out what you want and how badly you want it. Life is hard, it kicks us in the butt and sometimes we don't like it. I know that's how I feel right now that life is just really unfair and it hates me more than it loves me right now... but sounds like you're just really confused. You obviously love this person and you don't want to lose them, but that's up to them if they wanna walk away... it's not up to you, you could do anything in the world and they could still choose to walk away. You can't control people's decisions. You can't control what they choose to do with their life... if they want you in their's, they will have you in their life... if not, well it's time to move on... Don't be afraid to lose someone... I know that's something I've had to learn the hard way. I didn't know hw to fix me and my ex's relationship so I just let her go as she pleased.. she left me, is with someone else now and it crushes my heart that I'm no longer good enough for her, but life goes on.. you know? If this person chooses to walk away and you know in your heart you've worked your butt off to make it work and know that you did everything in your power to make it better and try, then don't feel guilty if they walk away, because you did everything you could... don't beat yourself up about it. I had to learn that too. Everyone makes mistakes, everyone fails at some point in their life... it's called forgiveness and we move on. Again, I don't know you, but I'm sorry about your feelings. I'm here if you need to talk more later. Good luck. Hope you figure things out. =) PS. Don't be afraid to love and get nothing in return! Just be glad you loved someone, that should make you happy that you have the ability to love! Some people just don't know what love is. Speaking for myself, too. <3 |