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<BLOCKQUOTE>Being desirable means being comfortable<BR>with your own ambiguity.<BR>The most ambiguous reality is that<BR>we are flesh and spirit at the same time.
<P>Within everyone there is light and shadow,<BR>good and evil, love and hate.<BR>In order to be truthful, you must<BR>embrace your total being.
<P>A person who exhibits both positive and<BR>negative qualities, strengths and<BR>weaknesses is not flawed<BR>but complete.<BR>--- Rumi</P></BLOCKQUOTE>