teddy_ro: Hi Lacey, just a hi, from someone that's still at a loss! For me many relationships and a few for years, but they all ended in tears, bending over backward didn't work, even sitting down to talk, vital information didn't come into play! So here I am trying to get a vital understanding of why things went the other way? I hope your notes will fill in the blancs of the jig saw puzzle that's confounded me to this day! Still a learning machine and will take in what you say.