kyliesanerd Offline

People with one photo and no profile are fake. Prove me wrong.

As an opening comment after having been back for a bit now...if you are too lazy to fill out your profile and have a real photo then I am probably going to be too lazy to respond to your DM. One or two word greetings will be ignored.

i was here before but got frustrated and left for quite a long time. i am chubby and a bit of a nerd - not a gamer type but enjoy literature, crafts and quiet times. i live in a small place and it is difficult to find ordinary friends much less special Ones...maybe this time round will be different! (Addendum - everyone has been so nice and concerned about why i left last time. It's all good, really - not to worry. I am having a wonderful experience so far.).

Still very new to the D/s and hypno world but i am definitely submissive but eager to learn and please excuse me if i ask dumb questions about what the acronyms mean etc. - i am probably far more cautious than i need to be all things considered. But - i still get very nervous when i think about someone i don't know well having the opportunity to mess around in my head lol. So for me it is about getting to know a person first - and then transitioning to something more intimate once there is trust and a connection or chemistry etc.

i am 23, single, have no children and live in western Canada. Enthusiastically bisexual with a burning desire to explore that more - but I will happily talk with almost anyone who isn't a jerk. Student and i work part time as well. Occasional insomnia and a generally positive person. Wire is great but if you don't have a profile and a photo, i will probably pass on any private chat, thanks just the same.

What does submission mean to me then and why am I here? Commitment, desire, complete obedience, a dream, trust, respect, control, devotion, love, ownership, lust, honesty, realistic expectations of what each can give and acceptance are all words and concepts that both define why I am here and what I am seeking.