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27 Happily married Female from Hyden       175
Married mom of two. Bored out of my wits end or extremely tired. Take your choice , that will be the reason for having this app.
Born and raised in a town of under 500. Army brat and did get to travel and live in a few places before turning 18. At 18 decided to return to Hyden and settle down. Fell in love and got married. Work full time as homemaker, mom and even wife. Work part time running local errands.
When time allows, I love listening to music , making candles and sewing.
Husband works as trucker and in order to be able to save more, he is away from myself and our children 20 days straight. He returns for 8 days and again leaves for another 20 day run.
Happily married, no intentions or thoughts about leaving my marriage. Joined simply to do something other with my time.


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KentuckyCharm: Chatrooms were always that thing that I never bothered to explore. Not internet or computer illiterate , but going back to the chatrooms, it simply was something that never caught my attention. I was in a conversation with a neighbor and one of the many topics that we covered were chatrooms. After our conversation I just went on with my life , but months later the idea of joining a chatroom popped into my mind. Researched free online chatrooms and Wireclub kept appearing.
Once joining I needed to fill out my profile as well as adding a few photographs because I thought that it was something everyone did in order to make it easier for others to learn something about who I was.
Surprise number one was learning that few ever bother to actually fill out the profile, lol.
I had this idea that people from all over the world, different walks of life as well as having different views would mesh into one hopefully fun environment. Boy was I wrong with that assumption, lol.
Quickly made my photographs private and learned the value of the block function as well.
I grew up with sort of a different upbringing than most because I was born into a military household. Moved frequently and in my case it allowed me to see the beauty that is the human experience. Became acquainted with not just with other military families, but civilians or non military as well.
My father entered the military at that age of 19 and it became his calling. He swore to always defend and protect the constitution. But he also tried his best to learn about how others outside the USA think and lead their lives. So when I was born, both of my parents did the best possible for me to have an open mind. To have structure, but never so rigid that it would prohibit or sabotage my acceptance of others because they may have a different viewpoint to mine.
I am no mental health expert nor do I proclaim to be one, but wow in my humble opinion a great many on this site should seriously consider therapy. Arguments over the smallest of things become full blown battles. Name calling, threats and backstabbing are common place. Accusations and outright lies are thrown without a thought about how those things may impact that accused. Others seem to live on the site and believe that simply being on the site longer, that it gives them the authority or right to downgrade anyone no in tune with them.
In my profile I clearly say that I am a happily married woman. That I am simply seeking out chat and nothing along the sexual lines. I first began entering the chat rooms that where by the rooms title non sexual, but quickly learned that very few in those rooms actually just seek out normal type chat.
In one of those rooms I began to chat with a woman that is bisexual, she then invited me to enter the rooms that are strictly for women. To my surprise those rooms offered
better chat. Yes, of course not every one of those rooms fit my likes, but overall they offered better chat with less the headaches. I met very likable, friendly and quite intelligent women. I do not log on to this site each and everyday, but when I do I feel accepted as well as respected. Have learned about other cultures and lifestyles. Have made friends with a few bisexual women, lesbian and even transwomen and must say that they have allowed me to learn and not feel awkward about asking questions.
Woke up because of lightning and was not able to fall back asleep. Not having much else to do because of the time and not wishing to wake my children up if I began housework, I logged on to Wireclub and began to type. I apologize for the length of this , but just needed to type and so I did, lol
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Marianetta
Marianetta: I’ve been on and off this website for 8 years; experienced all of the same you’re talking about in regard to the battles and drama, hence the “off” in my on and off Wireclub experience. Best not to take this place too seriously and enjoy it as a distraction to life; not a life in of itself. I’m so happy you joined the LGBT community online - I’d hope most women would understand you’re happily married, but if not… feel free to use that block button! The grand thing about the internet is that you meet so many people from so very many different places. Some, open minded, accepting, lazy in conflict, and every once in a while you even meet someone who manages to widen your perspective - in a good way! And of course, like all communities, there are those who only offer strife, argument, and drama because some people just never grew out of believing that any attention was good attention; akin to a little boy pulling a girl’s hair, except it’s not as endearing when it’s a 40 year old man doing it. I’m so glad you found a place for yourself here, and I’m happy to call you a friend
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KentuckyCharm: As I am to have you on my friends list. Took a while for me to feel like I sort of understand Wireclub because I do not log as much as others. I agree with you in to take Wireclub as a distraction of sorts and never take it way too close to the heart.
Have met some very interesting, funny as well as very informative and patient people here. I have never been closeminded, but thanks to a certain few here , I feel like I have learned and grown" especially in regards to the LGBT community.
Lookin forward to learning much more and possibly growing my list of friends as here as well. Thank you for allowing me to get to know you better
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efm349
efm349: Kentucky you are one of the most mature and wisest gals here on wire and you are only 25
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KentuckyCharm
KentuckyCharm: Cowards kill innocent people, and coward leaders give them the opportunity. National disgrace, global tragedy.
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KentuckyCharm: Politics are simply dirty. Best of intentioned individuals running for office quickly learn that the status quo wants no real change. It is a way of life and a way to become rich for the politicians , so a newcomer needs to either go along or not last long in politics.
As an Army brat, I got to see the real strength or our armed forces. That strength is not the guns or hardware that the soldiers are given, but the heart and willingness to do what is right under any situation.
Like in every walk of life there are those with less of a desire than others, but as I saw with my own eyes, even those that are not as wholeheartedly with the so called program, when the chips are down, they step up and do what is right.
I am a registered Liberal . I chose this because I understand that blindly following a particular party because it is what may be expected of you, is totally and completely wrong. So I look and analyze in those politicians what they may stand for, have yet to come to come across any one politician that completely sees things as I do. There is no perfect candidate. I look for common beliefs and see who may best offer me, my family , friends, city, state and country the best option.
We are currently in a political situation that will not end pretty. Lives will be lost. Regardless of your political views I ask that you take a moment or two and just think about what is going on.
Our soldiers will be the ones mopping up the mistakes that our elected politicians have gotten us into. It will be those soldiers that will be making the ultimate sacrifice. It will be the families of those fallen or those that come back with the PSTD that will also have to live with the mistakes that our elected politicians have allowed to occur.
Please remember this country is not Heaven, there are many serious issues that must be addressed and rectified here , but it is still the best goddamn country on this planet.
So please take a moment or two to think hard on what is about to happen. Take a moment or two and think about all those people that assisted our soldiers as well as all those Americans that are truly under the gun at this moment.
Let us hope that casualties are held to a minimum and that as a country we will hopefully begin to hold our politicians accountable for the actions that they cause
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KentuckyCharm in reply to Gaelic Ri: Thousands of American citizens as well as tens of thousands Afghani citizens that truly assisted us in Afghanistan
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Gaelic Ri: Well its seems to have been badly mismanaged
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KentuckyCharm in reply to Gaelic Ri: Understatement.
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KentuckyCharm: " We will never leave anyone behind."
" We sleep peaceably in our beds at night only because rough men and women stand ready to do violence on our behalf.”
“Word to the Nation: Guard zealously your right to serve in the Armed Forces, for without them, there will be no other rights to guard.”
“From time to time, the tree of liberty must be watered with the blood of tyrants and patriots."
“America without her Soldiers would be like God without His angels.”
“It doesn’t take a hero to order men into battle. It takes a hero to be one of those men who goes into battle.”
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KentuckyCharm: Opinion:
To me it has never been about what political party or affiliation you believe best serves your ideal or purpose. I try my best to see the connections or similarities rather than the differences. Was taught at a very young age that if you look for somewhat a common ground and begin to work from there, compromise and understanding as well as some sort of acceptance can occur. Not for each and every single point must there be a compromise as long as there is an understanding from where that belief is based on. Differences in how one has grown, life experiences and many other factors can and will have a major factor on how each individual views things.
Rather than feeling that you are woke and that your reasoning is the only reason that matters is wrong. Same goes for the opposite view and believing that being so called woke is hurting us as a society.
Live and let live. Live your life to your principles and as long as what others do does not threaten your existence , simply let it be.
Have been called out for stating a personal belief, called a few names I would rather not repeat, simply because when asked my belief , I gave it.
Once again they had no clue or idea as to why I see my view as best for myself and my family. They actually never bothered to ask why I see things the way I do. What I got, was called everything in the book because my view is different than what they believe in.
Wake up people, there are two sides to a coin and depending on many factors your view may be different than mine, but it does not make it wrong. Learn to live and let live. The world is not perfect, never will be, so relax a little, breath deeply and simply live your life, your way and as long at it does not put myself or my close ones in harms way, I will respect. So respect mine.
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KentuckyCharm in reply to Marianetta: Thank you so much. Have been having a super fun day
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Marianetta in reply to KentuckyCharm: That’s awesome!! What’d you do today? 😄
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KentuckyCharm in reply to Marianetta: Really nothing. Hubby and kids just took me out. We had ice cream, hit the park and just have had a blast
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KentuckyCharm: Be grateful
and honor
all who have
made the
ultimate sacrifice
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KentuckyCharm: Our flag does not fly
because the wind moves it,
It flies with the last breath
of each soldier who DIED
PROTECTING it
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t701809: Welcome to wire. Great profile pic
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KentuckyCharm: Thank you on both counts, lol.
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KentuckyCharm: Am relatively new to the site and have really only been to a few rooms. Have had a very nice experience for the most part and have added as friends some very nice and interesting people.
All know that my husband drives a truck for a living and is gone for 20 consecutive days He returns tonight for 8 to 9 days, so I will be gone from the site for those days.
I wish everyone , especially those that I have added to my friends list a fabulous time and do hope to chat with you soon
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mike_soto1974: catch ya soon lol
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KentuckyCharm
KentuckyCharm: Hello.
Just would like to state that I am online to chat, but to chat with people that are interested in non sexual chat. I am married and a mother to boot.
My goal for Wireclub is to simply try something different and new from my regular daily life.
I have no issues with anyone messaging me with a hello. But please take the time to type out fully your words and sentences. It takes just a few extra seconds and will reduce having for me to scratch my head trying to decipher what it is that you are trying to convey
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KentuckyCharm: Learning my way around Wireclub. Thank you so very much to the nice people that I have met so far. Feel free to say hello, but remember to be polite and respectful
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efm349
efm349: Welcome Kentucky I hope you enjoy your time on wire
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TheXCepsion: Such a Sweetheart ....
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roooki81: Hi
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KentuckyCharm: Hello everyone and thank you for stopping by. Tried to customize the profile just a little, not many options are available, so hope this at least shows that some interest was put into how the profile looks, lol.
My name is MayLee. Married to a wonderful husband and have two young boys ages one and three.
Am not a totally stay at home type mom because I do work on a part time basis , but I mainly am a homemaker, mom and wife. Live in a small area of Kentucky and love it. Able to still not have to lock the home doors at night, but just in case a crazy happens to stop by, I am more than able as well as wiling to shoot him or her or even they full of lead, lol.
Outdoors is my favorite place , but camping, hiking and smiling are a very close second .
Joined but not sure how long I will decide to stay on Wireclub or if whether I will actually enjoy however long my stay may be here. But like the optimistic person that I am, I will give it my all and hope that I get to chat with people from all over the country and even the world.
I ask or demand, however you choose to view it, that you respect the fact that I am married and with children. So by all means , stop by, say hello , but please understand that I am just after chat. I am not seeking a romance or anything more than just chatting.
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