Why me

So if you are reading this I want to say up front I am not a self pitying whiner. I am mystified about people on here and the adding of friends.
My profile is straight forward about my age and the picture pretty much verify s it. It also does not say sucker and shows I am no male model type that attracts women like flies. So I have to ask myself why I get friend requests out of nowhere from women 20 - 30 years younger than me. Not to disparage anyone blindly but I can think of only one reason, money.
I also do not get guys that send friend requests when we have never had any contact. What is it that you want?
If you want to chat, fine I am in a couple different rooms tho on an irregular basis. You might try a message also. If you just want to add numbers go elsewhere. If it is something else, let's chat.