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So, I had a good friend who I originally met on wire. It turns out he misrepresented himself in pics. I don't really care about what he looked like, I just liked being his friend. Among other things, we had many discussions about fitness and diet and stuff. Which is very odd, as it turns out he is out of shape in reality. So now, we most likely wont be friends anymore, which is a shame. I think he feels too strange about the deception. And I am still just a bit weirded out that I was talking to someone I thought I knew, and really it was someone who at least looked completely different, and someone who was purposely being deceitful. And... he has a great smile in real life, so why hide that??? So, for any of you who have fake pics up, why? Don't you actually want to be loved and appreciated for who you really are? Are appearances really that important? I have many good friends that don't fit the stereotypically good looking mold, and some I even flirt with Its the brain and the personality that are a turn on. Everything else is secondary. Especially on the internet! Anyway, I hope everyone has the courage to just be themselves, for better or for worse. Anyone with real pics (I hope all the rest of you I know!!) please feel free to comment too. Does this happen all the time? to all of you, no matter what you look like.