People don't like me as a general rule. I'm fairly okay with that.
Also, I lurk. That's why I don't talk to people much. That and I'm probably reading something. I don't really do well with social interactions. People need to come with a manual. That's why if I do speak to people it seems abrupt and sometimes awkward.
That and I'm quiet. I prefer animals to people. They're much easier to deal with.
Seriously, don't add me as a friend unless we've at the very minimum actually spoken. Even then you can probably not bother. I will not add you to make you look popular because I know that's why I get 90% of the friend requests I get are people I've never even had so much as a message from, and therefore they're just trying to make themselves look popular with lots of friends, I'm not going to be one.