Friends | Halo123: 3 yrs in remission yesterday but I need a CT scan as a preliminary precaution as I have some pain on my left side. Fingers crossed it's nothing serious xx 1 year ago • Report • Link 0 Halo123: Been a long while since I checked in here. Wondering if anything has changed just looking at room names I doubt it lol secretwhisper: Not much has changed lol More people have deleted account Other than that same ole thing Good to see you checked in Hope you are well and keeping safe Halo123: I'm doing fine hun still fatigued etc but I'm at University now doing a BA Hons degree in Business and Management just finished my first year passed all my exams and assignments with flying colours and really enjoying it. Still crafting and part of an all womens group, women empowering women, teachiing a craft class for vulnerable too so keeping myself quite busy. Hope you are well and looking after yourself, keep smilng xxxx Halo123: well i guess its that time of year, reflection an everything that has happened. Life changes very quickly in the blink of an eye you can lose everything or gain even. Last year I gave up a job I loved but through illnesses could no longer do competently enough . This year I have assignments to write up for next semester in my Batchelors degree. Something i never thought would ever happen. Enjoy this rollercoaster we call life but remember dont take it too seriously nobody gets out alive anyway. Cherish your time with loved ones this Christmas covid permitting . xxxx hope santa brings you all you truly deserve xxxxxx Love always Halo Halo123: this was me 3 yrs ago today. I took the decision to shave my hair off rather than it fall out clump by clump with chemotherapy. 3 yrs on i survived and I look fine but you know cancer is a battle I'm still fighting in some ways ,the fatigue , the nerve end damage so cos some1 looks ok doesn't mean they are . but things change . Im at uni doing a degree never ever thought i would do a degree .but i guess just because some 1 has limitations it doesn't stop us achieving our dreams . Dream big cos dreams do can true , you can achieve anything if you put your mind to it .all it takes is one step at a time . Life is too short guys live ity to your best ability and do what you want to do for you View all 5 posts I_was_a_fool_: so proud of you fighting for it halo darlin,and your inspirations are a valuable asset to others so thank you friend. Halo123 to jlovesR: will post here since have to be friends to message or pm you. Just been removed from your room for saying i was younger than some1 whose age states 85 . I read the rules of your room and if i had been pmed and asked my age i would have told your host my age . It is deemed rude to ask a lady her age and as it is i am over 40 so was removed with no grounds . i agree with rooms being over 18 and they can be made that way .I just think it could have been dealt with better. rather than an abrupt removal i didnt cause any hassle jlovesR: all you had to say is you were over 40, and it would have been fine, many who do not reply are actually in their 20s. And I am a lady and gladly state my age of 69 and do not find it rude at all. You were asked several times and chose to ignore the 2 hosts. Therefore you were removed. Halo123: life is too short ,do what makes you smile , its your life , make it what you want it to be Halo123: well had the cataract taken out my right eye today anaesthetic is just wearing off so painkillers time . i dont need to wear specs now on ly for reading and that such a weird thing for me cos i have worn specs since childhood Halo123: well life has changed dramatically over the last few years it has certainly taken its toll on me . But i believe its never too late toi try new things and learn new things so with that in mind I enrolled and now have become a mature student at University . I started this week and so far so good. Hopefully it stays like that . Knowledge is power Halo123: Why do we seek validation of others posting pics for their approval oh look at me we are all human beings yes looks do attract initially but come on surely how u are with people counts for more how you treat others regardless of looks gender race etc View all 4 posts Creative_Coma: Exactly halo.its not the pic you should get judged by but the person themselves.peeps here put to much emphasis on the pic Creative_Coma in reply to Creative_Coma: Or it's ' you don't have a pic of yourself don't talk to me'.i choose not to have a pic of me cause I like my privacy and do have a pic of me in my profile pics..if someone (preferably female) what's to know what I look like and interested it real easy to look at my profile pics..js.Said my peace on the matter..Done Halo123: well yesterday i had my 2 yr check up after having cancer 2yrs ?? where the hell has that gone ?? Pleased to say everything is looking fine tho i'm still struggling with fatigue daily and the peritheral neuropathy but i'm here to tell the tale and help sny1 going through this or a similar situation . Please never feel alone in times like this . That listening ear can be a life saver in more ways than one . U guys were amazing making me laugh when all i wanted to do was curl up and cry and i know i don't pop in as often as i used to but you are all very special to me and will hold a place in my heart forever. Love to you all xxxx stay safe x stay strong x |