Alyszon Da Silva (EmpressOfVenom) Offline

Perhaps you’ve played for years, and know your preferences well. Perhaps you have never played before and are nervously excited to explore this side of yourself. Either way, you should know a bit about me and my approach to BDSM.

I believe in the Loving Dominant. That means that I feel each and every one of my submissives and slaves are a gift to be treasured. Each of you is unique and special, and it is my task – and joy – to train you, torment you, punish you, and praise you. It is my way that I build you up rather than tear you down. Think of yourself as my possession; why would I want to keep a useless toy? Rather, I want to help you develop, to grow within your service to me, and become the best slave, toy, pet, or sub you can be. In this way, you become more valuable, and much more prized.

In my mind, when you submit to me, what you are really doing is this. Taking all that you are, your body, your mind, your personal power, your physical and mental self, putting it on a silver platter, and offering it to me. You get down on bended knee, bow your head, and offer yourself. This is the gift you give to me.

In return, I take your gift, and offer you a time of peace. When you serve me, you have nothing to worry about. I see to your needs and well-being, your safety and happiness. Naturally, within the context of BDSM, this takes on a different meaning than in the vanilla world. I may paddle you until your bottom is black, I may cane you until the red and purple welts are too many to count.

Never, ever will I push you farther than you want to go, do damage you cannot recover from, or deliberately harm you. If you are experienced, I may push your limits, and if you are nervous and new, I may hold your hand and lead you gently. Your only responsibility here is to be open and honest, to tell me your limits, and to invoke your safewords should you ever need them.