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53 Divorced Male from San Diego       169
 
Several years ago I found this site. As a single Dad, I spent most of my time either working or parenting. I missed adult conversation, adult contact. And so I started chatting….

I encountered many of the same issues that we all have in here. I chatted with “fake” profiles, all the while thrilled that I was online with some head turning, model like “woman”. I saw downright rude and crude behavior. I was bored at times. But I also met some amazing real people, and started talking…

Wireclub has rekindled in me one quality that I had forgotten about, and that maybe I thought I lost. Hope is a wondrous thing. It fires my imagination and infuses my life with action.

I’m certainly not one who professes to know much about life. But I do know that for me, it’s the little things in life that I find endearing and bring me the greatest happiness. My morning dark roast coffee from Peet’s Coffee. Listening to my son describe the waves he’s ridden, and that “next set” of waves approaching (even though Dad hates the freezing cold Pacific Ocean water). Blasting music in the car when I want the other people on the freeway to hear me. And the simple smile and touch of that special woman.

One of my favorite movies is “The Shawshank Redemption”. Not coincidentally, the last spoken words in that movie are “I hope”. Also from that movie: “Get busy living, or get busy dying….”

Wireclub reminded me this week just how fleeting online friendships can be. So, I’ve made my choice.

I appreciate if you’ve made it this far! If you want to still say hello: socalifhomes@gmail.com

Chris

Chris____
Chris____: A friend of mine sent me this, saying it was perfectly matched for me. Anyone please feel free to post what you all think of me. please be as honest as you like, I can take the criticisms, might actually help me to be a bit more of a better person on here. Anyway here goes:


1. Still trying to figure out what "LOL" stands for
2. Used to be on my Block list, but then they changed usernames
3. Drama Queen
4. Bought the lifetime subscription option to Pornhub
5. Made me throw up. Literally.
6. Bot
7. Terrified of chatting in public rooms
8. No, I don't want to buy you a $100 gift card to Amazon
9. Fake pics. Fake pics. Fake pics. Oh, did I say, fake pics?
10. Their profile posted age + 20 = Reality
11. Stealthy Stalker
12. Holds Wireclub record for most inappropriate below-the-waist photos sent anonymously to others
13. High maintenance, low payoff
14. Real job is graveyard shift fry station "chef" at local Whattaburger
15. In spite of all your number 1 through 14 shortcomings, you complete me, at least for the five minutes online that I need you
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Tinydancerlexi
Tinydancerlexi: Definitely #8 and 12. 😝😝

FYI you're the best.
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Chris____
Chris____: #SuicideAwareness
1-800-273-8255
Just one person.
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Chris____
Chris____: The older I get, the more I appreciate Frank Sinatra. All great art evokes thought and emotion, like many of his recordings. One of favorites, “Just the Way You Look, Tonight”
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Quinzelle
Quinzelle: franks voice is captivating
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Chris____
Chris____: Hi!

Several years ago I found this site. As a single Dad, I spent most of my time either working or parenting. I missed adult conversation, adult contact. And so I started chatting….

I encountered many of the same issues that we all have in here. I chatted with “fake” profiles, all the while thrilled that I was online with some head turning, model like “woman”. I saw downright rude and crude behavior. I was bored at times. But I also met some amazing real people, and started talking…

Wireclub has rekindled in me one quality that I had forgotten about, and that maybe I thought I lost. Hope is a wondrous thing. It fires my imagination and infuses my life with action.

I’m certainly not one who professes to know much about life. But I do know that for me, it’s the little things in life that I find endearing and bring me the greatest happiness. My morning dark roast coffee from Peet’s Coffee. Listening to my son describe the waves he’s ridden, and that “next set” of waves approaching (even though Dad hates the freezing cold Pacific Ocean water). Blasting music in the car when I want the other people on the freeway to hear me. And the simple smile and touch of that special woman.

One of my favorite movies is “The Shawshank Redemption”. Not coincidentally, the last spoken words in that movie are “I hope”. Also from that movie: “Get busy living, or get busy dying….”

Wireclub reminded me this week just how fleeting online friendships can be. So, I’ve made my choice.

I appreciate if you’ve made it this far! If you want to still say hello: socalifhomes@gmail.com

Chris
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Layla_Adrenalynn
Layla_Adrenalynn: Well said. Hang in there. Great message
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Emerald2019: Belated Happy Birthday 🎂🍾🎉
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Chris____: "A thought transfixed me: for the first time in my life I saw the truth as it is set into song by so many poets, proclaimed as the final wisdom by so many thinkers. The truth – that love is the ultimate and the highest goal to which Man can aspire. Then I grasped the meaning of the greatest secret that human poetry and human thought and belief have to impart: The salvation of Man is through love and in love. I understood how a man who has nothing left in this world still may know bliss, be it only for a brief moment, in the contemplation of his beloved." -- Viktor E. Frankl
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Lindz_101
Lindz_101: His book, "Man's Search for Meaning" changed my life. I really enjoy Frankl and what he has to say. He's profound.
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alba_s: beautiful post, hun
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