 Friends         | You can call me Bam or Boo . I am real. I am friendly and don't bite...unless requested. If you want to know, just ask. If i am ready I will tell you. I have decided to no longer post certain personal details on my profile for security.Prefers those with lots of imagination and few inhibitions. Life can be short so eat dessert first. Don't take yourself, or life too seriously. Remember, most people are capable of far more than they believe they are. Learning to run between the raindrops can be very useful. I have heard it said that the mind is like a parachute....it works best when open. I am here for the perfect mix of diversion and perversion. I may not be longterm relationship material, probably not even what you really want, but, like some foods, even though they are not good for you or be the ideal meal, we often crave them anyway. Some people here seem to drift into our lives...then drift back out...I have learned to accept that. Occasionally I will clean out my friend list if it seems someone has drifted away. Please don't be offended if you were on it then one day found you weren't. I usually do it to keep from annoying people who have lost interest. You can always send another request if you wish to return. Oh, if you ask "how are you?", be prepared to just take me for a test drive so you can decide for yourself. Please don't send mixed signals. I am very poor at deciphering them. Remember, our scars tell our stories.....and like Vegas, what happens on Wire , stays on Wire. Prefers to keep “private stuff” in PMs As the song says… you can’t always get what you want….but sometimes if you try real hard, you get what you need. We all occasionally unintentionally hurt those we care for . Try to be kind.  Spring cleaning my list. When I get bored , I sometimes just tap on delete without looking. I often ask myself do I really need a list? If you got swept off by mistake , I apologize, just ask to be re-added. 0  💜 0  Xo 0 Close your eyes…..think of not needing…enjoy the nothingness…float…sometimes if you stop looking, that which you thought you needed will find you. Arithmetic: Sometimes things just don’t add up the way we planned, like trying to help one but hurting two in the equation or doing the wrong thing for the right reason. Damage control: Once the damage is done, there is often little to do. Repair can be messy even if possible. It is very difficult, if not impossible,to put toothpaste back in the tube without getting messy. Recalibration: Sometimes that is all that is left to navigate one’s faulty arithmetic. If you see dirt when you look down, be thankful. It’s better than seeing it when you look up. |
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