A little about me: I am independent, but definitely not a feminist. I'm restless, analytical, opinionated, motivated and goal oriented. Old paper books that have a sweet smell with notes of vanilla flowers and almonds that can keep my mind wondering for days put great flavor into many of my evenings.
What do I seek in a mate? A sweet tongue. An intelligent and somewhat dirty mind. A playful heart and a loving soul. Someone with a heartbeat that soothes me when I lay my head upon his chest. Someone that respects the fact that I have some desires that only trust can reveal. A gentleman that would never trade respect for attention. Someone that can seduce me by tempting my mind, while making my body wait. A man that is a gentleman, deep and dominant. He should have a gentle touch, yet a strong hand when need be. Someone with a sensual caress, soft like the petals of a rose and a strong voice, abrasive and authoritative. Somebody with arms strong enough to rustle a calf and yet gentle enough to deliver a precious child.
Do such men exist in this day and age? Yes. I believe they are rare, but some do still exist. Are you one of them? Do you strive to be a gentleman or are you one of the “Modern Day Mates” who feel it's easier to replace than to repair?
Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. When it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being in love, which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Those that truly love have roots that grow towards each other underground, and, when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, they find that they are one tree and not two.” - Louis de Bernieres
There are two people you'll meet in your life. One will run a finger down the index of who you are and jump straight to the parts of you that peak their interest. The other will take his or her time reading through every one of your chapters and maybe fold corners of you that inspired them most. You will meet these two people; it is a given. It is the third that you'll never see coming. That one person who not only finishes your sentences, but keeps the book.
And if you show her anything, show her honesty, when all she knows is half truths.Show her raw, deep love, when all she knows is love that never matches hers. Show her that she doesn’t always have to be strong, that she can break down. She doesn’t have to hide or keep anything in like she’s used to doing. Show her you’ll never look down on her or view her as weak when she does break down with you. Show her she can tell you anything without judgment, she is always afraid of that with everyone. That is why she is quiet at times.
Show her that she can be open with you about anything that is bothering her, even if you feel it is small because trust me, even small to her is big. Show her effort that matches hers. Show her how much you think about her during the day, because God knows she needs to hear it, even if she knows you do. Even the strong can be insecure and needs reassuring. Show her you want her and desire her more than anyone. Show her you want her and desire her more than anyone. Ever.
Show her she’s a priority, because you know you are hugely a priority to her. Show her you’ll always make time for her, when she’s had to be the initiator to make plans with others for as long as she can remember, which made her feel bad but she would never let that on to anyone. Show her your dark, because you know once you show her all these things and she trusts you like no other, you’ll not only be her endearing light, but the addicting dark inside of her.
What do you see when you look into her soul? An abyss of sadness, pain, hurt, loves lost, memories and treasured loves she holds dear? Do you dive in and learn her and understand her and swim in her waters? Or do you run for cover not wanting to get wet? Do you know how to calm her chaos, sadness and insecurities? Do you know how to calm the storms in her heart and excite her? On the days she isn’t sad, do you add to her happy mood making her elevated and full of smiles? On her sad days, do you make her feel loved, understood and calm? Be all that. Be her safe place. Be her calm when her storms rise. Be her steady hand when she’s turbulent with uncontrollable sobs for no reason that she can rationalize. Be her strong sounding board when she was that for everyone else. Be her breathing easy when it gets too much for her. Be her home. Be her love that is beyond compare to any other she has known. That is how you’ll never lose her.
She needs you to be more than just her man; she needs you to be her best friend and her confidant; for you to be her voice of reason when she needs advice and her soundboard when she needs to vent. At the end of the day, she needs for you to be the one person who, no matter how terrible the storm, she can always count on to protect her from the rain. She needs all of this to be consistent, something she can count on to never change. That’s what she wants. That’s what she needs.
- Amari Soul
Strong souls aren’t just born. They are built by forging thru the most shambolic perils in life and still having the ability to shine.
Every adventure requires a first step.
Ambichous Darlin: Glad you are doing okay. I was getting worried. I've been online more lately than ever and wanted to check in on my friends now that I'm spending more time on here. I'm doing well. Staying busy at work, which is a blessing and a curse all in one. lol Thanks for responding. Have a blessed day my friend.
We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely do we consider the changes it has gone through to achieve its’ beauty.
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Ambichous Darlin in reply to humli8anduseher:
Well hello there stranger. Good to hear from you. I thought this type of shopping may have gotten your attention. I was surprised at the prices some of the ammo was going for considering all that is going on in this country lately. Hope you are taking care of you! Miss ya.
Ambichous Darlin: Good. Glad you are well.Enjoy the cabin and shoot off a few for me. A couple of those boxes are hollow points, but I picked up another box or two of FMJs as well. I wouldn't mind getting a reloading press. Someday perhaps. Take care of you! xo
If they respect you, respect them.
If they disrespect you, still respect them.
Do not allow the actions of others to decrease your good manners because you represent yourself, not others.
Sometimes respecting others when they’ve disrespected you isn’t so easy.
Just a thought:
The best way to help someone heal is to lightly run your finger over that persons’ soul until you find a crack....then you gently pour your love into that crack.
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humli8anduseher: being a small business owner trust me I feel the pain now.... business has just about come to a halt, I am doing all I can to at least pay my employees..... so thank you for the thoughts I hope the best for all small business owners....
Ambichous Darlin: You’re welcome. The least I can do is give the small business owners my business. I can’t even imagine what you are going through right now. I owned my own salon years ago and the struggles back then were a bit irritating so I can’t even imagine what it must be like now. I will keep you all in my prayers. xoxo
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