 Friends         |  carson: HI 8 years ago • Report • Link 0  Abbyy1977: In our world today we are lead to believe from society's influence that a woman's beauty is usually characterized by how she may appear on the exterior. Women are taught from a young age by the media and culture period that make-up and hair must be done nicely, clothes must be sexy, and bodies must be flawless in order to be considered to be beautiful. We all get caught up in these false qualifications of beauty, and fail to realize that the true qualification of a woman's beauty or anyone's beauty for that matter relies on the person they are at their heart's level. Abbyy1977: Why do we give everyone else so much power in our own lives? Why do we listen to or take advice from people who don't have any type of say in their own lives. Just because other people believe in negative thinking, doesn't mean that you have to believe in the same thing. Abbyy1977: The only way to get through life is to laugh your way through it. You either have to laugh or cry. I prefer to laugh. Crying gives me a headache. Abbyy1977: We are free sprites, but our pride binds us with chains of suffocation in a prison of our own insecurities. Abbyy1977: Every test in life makes us bitter or better, every problem comes to break us or make us. The choice is ours whether we become the victim or victor. Abbyy1977: It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. Abbyy1977: Every women's heart has different instructions. They're written through her eyes, in her smile, through her actions and tears. She just has to find someone who cares enough...TO READ THEM!
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 Abbyy1977: Not all men are superficial, shallow assholes honey. There are real men that choose to see, are attracted and love a women for what she is and how she makes them feel. A person with a ugly heart and soul will always be ugly no matter how beautiful and perfect their outer shell is.  carebare_1 in reply to Abbyy1977: Yeah, and some of those people feel good about themselves, and they have a significant other to be with. Other people (like yours truly), dont feel good about themselves, because they dont have a significant other to stand beside them come what may. They're alone, and cant get or have the person that they feel down deep inside, to be their soul mate. I play. I play only because they play games with me, and make me feel lousy about myself. Lets face it. All men want a "Beyounce' ". All men are liars.... Abbyy1977: I do tend to agree that majority of men are liars honey but in saying that lets face it women can be just as much liars as men. But you are right about how we can feel when we don't have that significant other by our side and how experiences with lying asshole men can wound us and harden us up. But that's life we can't change how people are and what they do. We can only learn from those experiences and hopefully be smarter and make wiser choices in life. Honey don't lose complete hope not all men or women are the same that's like saying all our fingers are all the same. Not all men are shallow and looking for a perfect body and looks sweetheart...I truly hope you do find that special person that will love and cherish you for how you make them feel because in the end that's what matters. Abbyy1977: The difference between education and experience? Education is when you read the fine print experience is what you get when you don't. Abbyy1977: Everyone is trying to accomplish something big, not realizing that life is made up of little things. Abbyy1977: Everyone makes mistakes in life, but that doesn't mean they have to pay for them the rest of their life sometimes good people make bad choices. It doesn't mean they are bad. It means they are human. Abbyy1977: I stand up for myself, and my beliefs. I stand up for those I love. I speak my mind, think my own thoughts, I do things my way. I won't compromise what in my heart. I live my life my way. I won't allow anyone to step on me or control me. I refuse to tolerate injustice. I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be me. So try to stomp on me, douse my inner flame, squash every once of beauty I hold within. You WONT succeed. Abbyy1977: The cause of many conflicts and disputes is that people do not even try to understand each other and do not want to understand the meaning of communication. Abbyy1977: If you're going to trust someone with your heart, make sure they have a heart of their own so they know how it feels when it's broken. Abbyy1977: When u are in lust with someone, u see their imperfections & think u can change them. When u are in love with someone, u see their imperfections & u accept them |
