What is best ways to get rid of loneliness? (Page 3) LoisS: Sit in a dark room with the lights off for a little while....You wont feel alone anymore....you might even hear someone in the closet.  LauraStarr: Leave this dumb social chatting nonsense site...and make real friends...not the fakes from here...No one here is real...except in your empty pitiful heads...Having a zillion friends here means your so desperate to be loved and accepted ..No wonder the art of conversation is dead here..other than...Hello...How are you...!!!!  AretoNyx: I do have some close neighbors I chat with once and while, but that is besides the point. There are catfish but then there are people that get married with people they met online. Meeting people online just the same as offline has risks of some being fake however to say all are fake ( including yourself) is pretty sad. If people like a page does not mean one is a friend, but one can get to know others online anyhow. Everyone of them are human at least as much as any one offline. True being desperate for attention even by trolling for likes is not healthy perhaps, but there are other reasons why people communicate with others than just for attention or getting relationships closer. You seem a bit hypocritical Laura on social chatting on this site, but anyhow it has already been stated about other things than " Hello" or " How are you?" even in this forum. Facebook to other social media , and chat rooms exist where people say more. If just wanting chat there are people that have longer conversations, but wanting more than this on the first meet for even offline introductions for strangers on the street is ridiculously expecting to much. If you feel all are fake here fine, but not sure why you stay if you feel that way yourself.  srbiddy09: There is no better cure for loneliness than being clubbed and beaten by a squadron of Brown Shirts as you try to raise consciousness about the lack of racial equality in America!!!  zeffur: Change your thinking (beliefs, values, attiude) & speaking (internal & external), & actions (always for the best). 1. Know that you exist for certain reasons & purposes. Your first purpose was to be a daughter & perhaps a grandaughter/sibling/cousin/friend/lover/parent/etc & a citizen. 2. Think about & experience the things that you enjoy most--as much as possible. Try new things often. Make a journal of the things that you've said/done & review & reflect on it a few times per week. 3. Love yourself & others: Be extraordinary to others for their benefit & for yours. Love is an affection for others that makes you feel good enough to say/do things for their benefit without expecting anything in return. The more you love others, the more others will love you--& accept the fact/reality that some people struggle with loving others. Note: Loving yourself includes taking care of yourself properly: (sleeping, eating, exercise, hygiene, & healthy activities & interactions with others.) 4. Create new purposes for yourself by deciding to be/do things that you consider worthy of your time. Do them with intent & enjoy what you've done that is good--as you do them--don't wait to enjoy your experiences). Best wishes to you. (Edited by zeffur) AretoNyx: There are many good suggestions. Thanks for all the advice from many. Hopefully it helps some one.  (Post deleted by AretoNyx ) MJ59: "RoseLil: Atheists feel alone because they don't have jesus who befriends them. " Really??? Must tell that story next time I'm in a room full of my mates AretoNyx: So any theist that feels lonely or alone are atheists , and all atheists in solitude alone are hated by Jesus. Ok then that is a different theist take from " Jesus love you". Lol AretoNyx: If people will join a room they will join it. You can post a room once related to topic but otherwise please no spam. | Self-Improvement Chat Room Similar Conversations |
