What kind of People should you watch out for ?
yippeskippy: Narcissists, psychopaths, sociopaths etc. Most people think those types of people are recluse, they aren't. They are everywhere. I'm more wary of the nice ones (covert) types than the overt. At least you can see the overt ones coming. The nicer ones just keep lying but their actions speak for themselves. Their lies sound plausible and sometimes their actions 'seem' to reflect goodness, but in the end its always self-serving.
Plumpcherry: Why? he wasn’t mean to me. But at the same time people do change and we never really know them.
yippeskippy: Narcissists usually aren't mean. They are charming. If your friend was indeed a narcissist, they are natural con artists. They are covert but the end result is the same, someone gets hurt and often times the person hurting isn't even aware or they defend them. I've been through that and learned to stand my ground without responding negatively, or at least not always.