I want to break up with my boyfriend but cant!!! HELP!!!
SarahIvyLouise: I want to break up with my boyfriend but dont no how. i think i love him. i feel really uphappy and want to cry all the time. what should i do ??
guess who: tell him you are crying all the time because you are pregnant then he will leave and that will solve your problem, or he will man up want the responsibility proving he does love you then you will be crying tears of happiness.
Nosferatu: And so the lion tried to venture down the yellow brick road, but failed. O lion, please muster the strength to make it to the end!
_Awhinanastyle_: Havelt be nice.
Firstly, why do you want to break up with him? If you still umm and ahh about whether you love him or not, then clearly something has to give. The best way to sort that out is to talk to him about the way you're feeling and try to work it through. Breaking up with him, you'll know having lost him whether hes worth the heart ache he seems to be giving you. By then it might be too late.
Communication is the best way to go I think.
opul: First u should find the right reason why u want to broke up with him. Why u should stick in ur relationship if he only can make u cry n sad all the time. The relationship is about feeling, communications, understand eachother, sharing n complete each other. It's NOT only bout the physical attractions. U're still young, u're pretty, u can find a guy somewhere out there who really love u just the way u r. Enjoy ur teenage life coz u can't turn back ur time, don't ever regret in the next..
Please take care of urself n have fun with ur friends.
opul: lol, am i look like a keeper? I just don't want something or some1 destroy her life n her future...
_Awhinanastyle_: I wouldn't say it has reached that point yet but I understand what you mean.
(Hopefully she reads your comment)
ktmrocks: if u really love him then why do u need a break up...and if u want a break up it means...u dont love him....
robynh: i was the same with my first bf we were together nearly 2 yrs and everything just seemed to be chore after a while..if your anyway like myself i was afraid to because firstly i thought id literally been his shoulder to cry on for the past 2 yrs and i was too soft i didn't want to disapoint or make some1 upset..i eventually broke i eventually broke it off and my god i felt a weight lifted off my shoulders!!
but, if not in anyway the same i'd really think about why you want to
tracesofme: I had this problem before. I just said to myself ok I we have no future with him the faster I can end it the faster I can move on with my life. It helped me a lot. I ended it and a year later and the only regret I have is that I didn't do it sooner.
countrycutie7385: There is a big difference between loving someone and being in love with them. If you feel unhappy and sad why would you want to stay in the relationship ??
SummerReign: I don't mean to sound horrible.
But just grow some and break up with him. If you're unsure...do it anyway, if you two were meant to be together, it will happen. Obviously you're not happy now.
I have a friend that needs to break up with her boyfriend. But she says she 'can't', I know she knows she needs to deep down, but she just won't do it. It's a bit more serious than your situation though, it involves sexual and physical abuse.
I only wish she would hurry up and break up with him.
The longer you leave it, the longer you stay un-happy.
As I said, if you were meant to be together...something will happen later on, have faith.
WabbitStew: what exactly is it thats making you unhappy? is it him? or something else? Without knowing more details about you/relationship noone on here is qualified to make judgement. Sure, if it's actually him (his behaviour and attitudes) that are making you cry then I'd say ditch the guy (short term pain long term gain) but if it's something else that's causing a problem i'd say share it with him, he'll either be supportive and helpful or he won't be - either way you may have your answer.
all easier said than done mind you - hope things get better for you
Brokenarrow: Honestly,there is no (I think) when it comes to love!! You will know for a fact if you do! Secondly, it doesn't matter if you love someone or not. If it is affecting the well-being of yourself then it is not worth it! I've been through a lot and I happened to write something based off this and it is, Complication is one of the main things in life that can make it great or make you deny, the things that are most important to help you breathe freely. Choices can be made that will make it best for yourself to be happy. With the happiness that is brought out in you, allows everyone around you, to be the brightest they can be too.
blonde goddess: why do you want to leave him? write a list of reasons and then reasons to stay... then make a choice. only you can make that choice.... no one else.
guess who: Just do what my wife did leave and don't say anything, of course it took me a few weeks to realize she had left damn what a relief that was, it saved me from leaving.
AEry: we must know how to control our frustration and dnt blame urself if u break up wit him or her...juz think positively and keep on movin..dnt even remember ur past..juz 4get it...and we must think tht we can still live without him or her..in case if u really love him or her so much..doesnt mean he or she's the one...mayb its our faith and we must believe tht there must be a good things happen or mayb theres other ppl who can prove tht he or she can tried their best to make u feel more happy and good..
StarAhau: This might be impulsive as if you're not really sure where your feelings lie at this time, you can make some choices based on just your feelings without any base merit to why you want to break up. Since there is crying involved then you need to find out what causes this. If he doesn't show enough affections/somewhat controlling/might not like to socialize that much,he might not be the right one for you if no medium ground can be achieved. View the base of why your emotions are giving you signals.
mel100: sarah,did you consider that you may be homesick,i read your profile and you said you miss Leeds,you say you love your boy friend so why would you want to break up,being far away from home can fester all sorts of emotions and you might not realise it yourself,consider the thought that ,that might be why you cry so much,you could be missing family and friends and all the familiar things of home
AshleySarah: The best thing is to do is always be honest tell him everything such as your crying all the time and you are unhappy in your relationship theres nothing better than lieing to not only yourself but to him too, just be honest with him hun honesty goes a long way. If you lie ya just get found out in the end. Hope it helps x