Im cheating and I can't stop! (Page 8) chrisdlion: Exactly tamilynn'' who cares who gets hurt or feels like the world is crap, who cares that families are broken up and children are taught to not care about being true to your mate and ones self, who cares , as long as you feel good who cares! seems like the whole world thinks the same way considering the rate of abortion and divorce run at a tie! but who cares right Tamilynn, to each his own! chrisdlion: guess you dont work or around kids who suffer from broken homes, you should grow up and instead of being a a blind eye mate , maybe be your brothers keeper and help your fellow man!, but you wont see any of that cause your too busy living a selfish life having tea and crumpets ol chap! look in a childs eyes and tell em that,, chrisdlion: I dont know what God your talking about , but my God is Love , and if you open the real bible he is not making this world as it is , we are , this world was a Paradise and it was us who messed it up, we have free will to make decisions of either show some love or turn a blind eye, Im sorry but God is not going to afflict anyone to hardships or pain , he allows up to suffer to make us realize that we need him , he doesnt need us!, and as far as Gods great plan not many follow his plan , thats why we are where were at, in these times, Now its up to us to clean it up and that was the reason Christ came to set an example to all of us ,but not many really lead by it , they rather make up an excuse and when crap happens in this world and we create it , we allways blame God and say ''it God's great plan'' read your bible, alittle closer! deuce916: I don't have a bible & I don't want to read one. A vile source of information that is. You believe it to be a truthful source of information without ever testing to see if it isn't. chrisdlion: well in it,,, it says to walk by faith and not by sight!, it also talks about haveing patience with a unbeliever,,,i will pray for you and many like you cause your like sheep to a slaughter,,, your more afraid of dieing than understanding what the benefits that await you and whats promised to you after you die,,,no fear when your guided by faith,,no faith no hope simple as that! chrisdlion: if i told you that your girlfriend was fooling around on you or has anotheer man would you believe me?, probablyy not, youd want to find the truth, right,, just because a group of people or person says that one thing or another doesnt mean its the truth , God say s to seek first the Kingdom , not just take one persons word as gospel,, when you seek its something you do continually, and if you had a bad experience it only means you have stopped searching or seeking because of a wolf in sheeps clothing,,, chrisdlion: thats why i am going to pray for you and only you! because under all of your layers of pain and hate you are still seeking for the love of God, just as the Apostles denied Christ three times you also do the same , but he knows your heart and forgives you anyway, and this is where i said in the begining God didnt create this in you Man did , and he is waiting for you to come to him, and lay all your troubles on him,, he's heard and read your heart!,,,, you have a good heart no matter how you come off you are a man with a heart , because you feel pain and dismay,,, and you are just in need of love from the Father! chrisdlion: that was a compliment and i trully thank you!, ive been called worse, but its all good ! take care ,, chrisdlion: i allready know the problem , i talked to her along time ago and she's not really to blame , and she is a very kind and loving person , but is suffering from something thats not her fault , like many chrisroth: http://www.amazon.com/Out-Shadows-Understanding-Sexual-Addiction/dp/1568386214/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1369937739&sr=1-1&keywords=out+of+the+shadows BAD WOLF_: Fuck monogamy it's against human nature anyways, a construct of man based on the society we made after we abandoned hunting and gathering chrisroth: i think monogamy arose as a part of a stable society with relatively stable family units. I suspect that if we get rid of that there will be lots of hurting people and a very unstable society. BAD WOLF_: I think it's time we re-evaluate what is priority in maintaining society and family, humanity has to change as our understanding of our nature (biological and psychological) continues to evolve chrisroth: sure, but just know that changes will bring a change to society. There are likely going to be some consequences that we don't want. There's always a trade off. Barbara the Jew: so you think a man is to have many wifes and a women one partner because even then women where not allowed to have diferent sexual partners chrisdlion: In the begining Adam was givin one woman not two or three , just one,, and he was commanded to be frultfull and multiply, and then soon after the earth was full of people and laws were put in place , the reason men had multiable wives was to save his seed and to allow his seed to live on mainly for the sake of the blood line of Christ, from Adam to Christ, when Christ died things chnged and we were commanded to have one wife and thats it, the flesh of man is the one who allows him to make up his own rules, and then Kaos happens,, we can butter up everything with ''its in our nateure to sleep around or have multiable partners'', but those laws have changed and its mans urge that breaks those laws to satisfy his sexual urges,, laws were made for us to go by, by God and he makes the rules and man has to abide by them or suffer the consequences,, family dianamic broken, children born without a two parent committment, and disease flowing from one person to another, from sex! theres a reason for everything in this world, and its mans evil lust for his own selfish needs, im not trying to preach the gospel, i dont even go to church, but there is a God and we have to abide by the laws given, religion or not beliefs or not, we all need to realize we are the ones creating our own hell here on earth,,, whether you beleive it or not... remember you dont have to go to church to have faith in God, but as soon as you bring up what God has commanded of us we feel we have to point fingers at one another for not practicing a religion,, religion isnt God , its a practice of teaching, Faith is God, and thats lacking in this world , or the lack of ,,, BAD WOLF_: There is no book of laws to follow, Man was born to this world without a guide and he walked this earth making his own rules as he went, one can choose to follow "Gods" laws if he wishes but that doesnt mean it's right or wrong, there is no right and wrong just cause and consequence, action and reaction. 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