Im cheating and I can't stop! (Page 6)
chrisdlion: You say you cant stop cheating, alot of that compulsivness comes from your past, as a child or adolesence, you were probably in a family where you seen either your mom or dad cheat and feel some type of idea that its normal, or you were probably molested as a child by a family member and you cant idenify the real meaning of love sex and commitment, your ideas come from a hurt you suffered by someone who took the real sense of love away from you or a comittment to be in a relationship due to a trust issue with men ,when the issue lies within you, you look for love and find it boring and not exciting after awhile so you look elsewhere in someone else, a feeling that you are searching for love and to be loved by someone, yourself'' you use others to satisfy your pain through cheating a sense of power you feel , the power you felt taken away from you when you were molested or raped,, you find excitment in deciet and keeping secrets from someone and tend to invent stories in your own mind making cheating a game, then after its done you feel a sense of heavy guilt, like a gambler losing his money at the table only to get the itch when placed with money, and yours would be opprotunity of cheating, ,, its not your fault but a mental sickness that can be dealt with and solved, your probably a flirty type person and vey quiet and loves the excitment of the sexual endevor, cheating is a sickness and if you ever want to be normal and have a real relationship , seek a hypnotherapist to help you rid this problem and move on to a healthier life style , if not your going to have a very troubled life and make others along with you troublesome as well!
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chrisdlion: Hey brother we still love you ,, its ok take a deep breath, and i'll say a prayer for you!
chrisdlion: i am wrong sometimes and i am man enough to admit my when i am wrong, all the time! and i apoolgize when i am wrong , and not go off half cocked and give isult to injury,, and yes i am wrong alot of the time!
chrisdlion: Nobody43, thought are things that come in and out of the mind, it depends on how much you dwell on the idea of cheating, if you feel youve cheated in your heart then the act has happened,,
jessfarr66: sounds like you need to wake up and stop spreading your legs for every guy that comes around. If your not happy then leave. Its not fair to the person you are cheating on. I mean does the guy that your cheating on this guy with know you have a bf? if so then he is just as fucked up in the head as you are. its not right to hurt people like that and mess with their heads and emotions. Seriously people like you make me sick. This is why so many people have trust issues is bc of people like you who cant stay true to the one your with. someone needs to kick you in the v-box and then maybe you wont feel like having sex with anyone for awhile then maybe you can use your brain!
christina16bb: I am bipolar schizophrenic and one of the results of being bipolar is exactly this, my sex drive is something that even with medication is hard to control. I am engage now and i cheat constantly with guys and girls, i just cant stop doing it and i feel bad for my fiance....