Im cheating and I can't stop! (Page 5)
astridarris: Once You find a partner You care for and respect and never want them out of Your life..YOU"LL STOP CHEATING.
doulas4life: Dear friend,
I fear you are not ready to recieve this message, but I heard courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something is more important. I am also told the truth will set you free.
I believe God is more important than my fear, and lies are trapping you,
please know this is said out of love, now
please do not think I am I am responding in a self righteous manner.
When I was 14 years old, I got my first boyfriend, we were like best friends,
I was so deperate to feel loved I dated this guy depite being almost polar opposites,
kicked my morals out the window, and did grave damage to my walk with Jesus.
I suddenly did not recognize myself. And after all was said and done he seemed to ignore me.
I told myself I would not cry another night by myself over this guy, but i would go to a party my sister was going too. Low and behold I met a 21 year old guy, he seemed to give me the attention I craved from the guy I was comitted to and trusted, this 21 year old guy randomly kissed me.
I stopped him and told him about my boyfriend but he did not care.
Suddenly I did not stop him and found myself making out with some guy I barely knew and who was not my boyfriend. Soon after I broke up with my boyfriend,
come to find out the reason he had not paying attention to me was he was cheating on me with like 5 other girls.
now I knew there are guys who will just try to use weomen, but I assumed because Jesus was in my heart I had devine protection from this sort of situation. Now I saw how bad sin was, and that I had become this sin I hated soooo much, and its likely it came back on my own head.
sin seperates us from God thats why we must repent which means turn away from sin. We must stop living for ourselves and start living for God. That exactly what I did, I repented.
Sin will try to trick us, its widely reported in society that sex is pleasurable,
what is not widely reported unless you read the bible like I do,
is that sex is practically a spiritual act, designed by God for marriage,
and it joins two souls together.
But violation of God's plan by having sex with someone your NOT married too is evil in God's sight.
This has disasterous consequences for us from the Lord, some on earth such as s.t.d.'s or unwanted pregnancy, and much worse in hell later if we do not repent.
your feeling bad about cheating because God wrote His law on the tablet of your heart,
so you know right from wrong.
precious soul God loves and is seeking to save,
my friend repent now, seek God, while there is still time for you.
oh and just so you know I am not just giving you my opinion,
read the Bible know what God says about sexual immorality.
1Corinthians 6:15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make [them] members of a harlot? Certainly not!
1Corinthians 6:16 Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot is one body [with her]? For "the two," He says, "shall become one flesh." [fn]
1Corinthians 6:17 But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit [with Him].
1Corinthians 6:18 Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
1Corinthians 6:19 Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit [who is] in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own?
1Corinthians 6:20 For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body [fn] and in your spirit, which are God's.
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doulas4life: If you are referring to me, I am a weomen not a guy,
and I have faith Jesus will protect me if you try anything.
doulas4life: unless I am mistaken Jesus has been known to help me before,
and are you lying to me? I am pretty sure you know what a weomen is maybye a different term would help maybye girl, female, lady
doulas4life: ah okay i mispelled the word sorry,
not trying to annoy people trying to warn unbelievers for their own good.
I do not want them to be in danger of hell.
Blackshoes: I can only suggest that you get help from God The church or SLA .I've had the same problem My entire life ,The only thing that has help me, was God ,church ,and Zolof .Each one that does these things', have many different reason as to why .I had the need to be loved .However the flesh isn't love: it's lust ..
anjie791: Get a grip and have some morals. You're an idiot. It's one thing to cheat ...but asking people's opinions on what you should do? What the flip? If this thread is for attention, you have some major problems. Why the hell would you cheat and write about it? Instead of telling us, Why don't you tell the person that you're cheating on .....
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katie8219: I am by far a saint. I cheated once and after I felt so much guilt I thought i'd go insane. If u just want a snuggle buddy at night i'd recomend a body pillow and a toy. If u keep doing this it will catch up 2 you. I hope u r using protection because if u contract something how can u explain that 2 ur bf?