Im cheating and I can't stop! (Page 4) peladito46: everyone cheats -mentally at least, we all hav fantasies n desires, n its normal that after a long relationship we start 2 to wonder about other people or situations, think about ur favorite plate n imagine that u only eat it 4 a while then u gonna get bored of it, so even if u luv ur partner, if u start 2 "date" another(s) person(s) then u'll be able 2 come back home n continue enjoying ur favorite dish without getting bored of it -well at least its what i think, just my opinion cheers peladito46: but obviously, being careful choosing ur fwb in order to not get home any std or drama -if u want just vive la vida loca lol USEtheUSER: lolll...now we will all became a "skirt chasers" instead of cheaters... (Edited by USEtheUSER) Melanie_60: If your cheeting how can you use the word LOVE. You put yourself and everyone your messing around with in danger of STD's That is not fair to the guy who trusts you. Sound to me your not getting what you need with your current BF so split as friends before you burn a bridge that may still be passable in the future and go sew your oats so to speek then when your tired of playing the field you can settle down to what you really want. Just my oppinion
nettie7777: cheating is cheating if your with a loved one and he doesnt treat you right and your afraid you will be alone like my father always told me you make life it doesnt make you and still it doesnt give you a reason to cheat, get out !! if you was in a relationship and very much in love and he cheated how would you feel??? could you ever trust your self again? it works both ways (trust you and trust him), (Edited by nettie7777) Queenslander41M: Yes moneek its a feeling that is hard to describe when cheated on..like love thrown in your face... Queenslander41M: yes,so not only was your heart broken but felt like they were also laughing at you...I think its sort of takes longer to get over it when your cheated on Queenslander41M: awwwwuh...sorry to hear that...its going to be a hard struggle but hopefully time will heal your heart... Tica: First if u really loved him, you wouldn't have looked for someone else. If you dont want to be alone, again stay with the second guy because the first one was obviously not enough for you. So do your bf a favor and let him go, that way he can be with someone who would really appreciate him and you can be with as many guys as you can without screwing someone elses life. Not wanting to be alone isn't an excuse to be a bitch and play with guy's feelings. (Post deleted by Orizont ) williamstiann: i no exactly how u feel. i was raised in a broken home and trusting that 1 guy could love me unconditionally was hard. my self esteem was low n i loved the attention. its an addiction jus lik sex or drugs. my cheatin addition lead me to sex addiction and that was dangerious. u have to love urself 1st. It will come along a guy that u like alot one day soo much. u could break his heart. he's gonin to b so different from the rest then ull have to stop. bt if u dnt u could lose him. hes out there but that'll make u wana stop. have confidence in urself. and everything that glitters and gold is that always wat its looks lik it can b. have self control. one day someone could do u that way n hurt u. keep ur head up and b paient | Self-Improvement Chat Room Similar Conversations |