Im cheating and I can't stop! (Page 3)
sa_me_h10: i dont know what to tell u ..but if u r feeling ok doing it ..just keep it going ,,cause it doesn`t matter if its right or wrong ..its human anxiety
supeople: ur just being a man and following ur instincts..the nature of man is a highly promiscuous and opportunistic one..if it does'nt f.. ur life up, then why shud you quit..lol
yui_34: well..im agree to sa_me...if u like it just do it! im looking for that partner to deal with...hehhehe
sa_me_h10: yup ..the idea is kind of funny & so crazy ..yui..
i agree wit ..Dark .. i like the fact that we should be thinking of others before ourselves ..by asking ourselves how might we feel if we were in there position ..
but here the situation is different because its a case of pure luct without feelings ..just to fulfill the anxiety ..
zxy8: How can anyone honestly cheat - it is one of the worst things that can ever happen. The pain that you can cause to your partner (soon to be ex-partner) is immense. Terrible for anyone to do or even consider.
KenW28: You should ask him for a sex partner. My sex life was getting boring, but instead of cheating I asked my wife for a sex partner. Of course she said I could do a one time thing, but I also found out she was interested in having threesomes with other women. Sometimes asking doesn't hurt.
Miss Me When Im Gone: Cheating really is a sign of unhappyness... i look at this type of person as a hungry ghost, that goes from person to person tasting the foods, and fruits of the moments only never to be compleatly satisified... So they cheat in hopes to find something they feel is missing, but the true answers lay inside... hummm???? In other countries it's common for men to have moe then one wife, but up to as many as one can afford... Technically these are old customs, but laws have been created in certain countries that prohibbited these ancient practices... These are such things that r common to man....sms
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OCD_OCD: You have absolutely no business in being in a relationship other than one which is solely motived by a bounce and a tickle. If you're through with him, then tell him and let him go.
Looks like you want to partake of all, yet use (and I do mean use) your current relationship as a safety net. Callous. Very self-centered and callous.
OCD_OCD: Then you're a jerk and aren't worth the effort. You can stop, you simply choose not to. And you apparently don't want to take responsibility for your wandering bits, either.
viking2020: some people are polyamorous ... they can love more than 1 person at the same time ....
mybe different kinds of love ... emotional, physical, ....
USEtheUSER: Members on chat are chat cheaters.
Emotional form of cheating its worst than physical one.
Or in simple words, beeing with some one in relationship and thinking of others in the same moment is promiscuous behavior.
JuIia: USEtheUSER: I see where you're coming from. But you can't be completely emotionally dependent on just ONE person. It's intrinsic in human nature to think of sex constantly and of sex with other people (deny it if you want) but what separates cheaters is the self-control factor. If you love (the big L word) somebody enough, you'd have them in the back of your mind before choosing to hurt them.
I don't think it's that complex haha. All actions have consequences. And trust me,karma is a bitch!
seeingclearer2012: I just went thru this with my soon to be ex husband, but he was you in the relationship. I gave him many times to fix it and get help and many times he went right back to cheating, and now the last time it was enough. at some pt. it just has to stop. If u TRULY love the guy, u get help, be HONEST with the guy, and go from there. if he leaves u, i dont blame him, but if u get help, maybe the next man u get involved in it wont happen with. Otherwise, ull never get better. If u really do hav a sexual addiction then u need to go to a rehab center or something cuz is gross. I mean, when i foundout my hubby was having threesmes and ksising other women, then went back to kiss me, its just NASTY! Ur being sefish, either quit it now or leave the guy. But either way, get help.