Im cheating and I can't stop! (Page 11) I am NOT a weenie: The distinction between a white lie and a lie of betrayal. Besides, if you truly love the person you are with, if they ask you if they look fat, you'll know exactly what to say. I am NOT a weenie: It takes a lack of self-respect to stay with a person who cheats on you, better off just leaving them. arkla: sounds like you got it great sex that satisfys and a snuggle buddy at night instead of a stuffed toy Archangel FTW: Keep cheating, it's who you are; like your sexual preferences, they are genetically inherited and cannot be changed.  Thor213: archangel is got a point if evolution adaptation for what its worth its part continuation of humans and value to human survival... however society influence has a way of shaming especially religion...  btlsp2013: I am cheating on my girlfriend, frequenting strip clubs and hiring hookers and it doen't bother me.  TinkersDamn: Forums; self-improvement forum. click on justmejera, nothing happens. Right click on justmejera, to open link in new tab. You are linked to, about blank. What does this signify? Who is behind this post? Why is there no name attached? Very curious questions come to mind. Thor213: it sounds like gloating a way of bragging there is a genetic influence to cheating but i not going in to it  codinghtc: This is pathetic. This feed should have ended ages ago. If you have sexual relations outside of your relationship, you're a fraud, your relationship is a fraud, and you posting it is just allowing you to relive it, as well as all the folks vicariously living it. Tell your boyfriend, let him decide if you're justified.  Sir Loin: Just saw this thread for the first time and it interested me. Have you spoken to your bf about this? About sexual fantasies? You might get quite a surprise. I wouldn't come right out and say iy it at the beginning, but with a bit of pillow talk he might actually approve of your cheating. If that surprises you just google cuckold lifestyle, it's probably the most common fantasy in the world for men. Personally I could never understand jealousy, it stems from insecurity and must be the ugliest emotion ever. If my wife cheated on me I wouldn't be jealous, I would be turned on I am NOT a weenie: "If my wife cheated on me I wouldn't be jealous, I would be turned on." That would also make you a cuckold Sir. Sir Loin: A cuckold, by popular definition today, is not quite as you describe. Most self confessed cuckolds are stimulated by being humiliated, they are subservient individuals with deep seated inferiority issues. I am far from that, however I am excited by the fact that my wife is attractive to other men. I do not have jealousy issues when other guys turn to look at her in the street or flirt with her at parties. I cannot understand why other people make such an issue about sexual fidelity. It seems there are far more important attributes that go towards making a "good" spouse/ partner etc.  melissamills884: I am coming in not knowing who is cheating or not BUT I will tell you that my ex husband was fucking men all day long (he's gay) and never told me. So 5 YEARS later I find out in a REALLY bad way. It is NEVER okay to cheat. If you cheat it shows a lack of respect for the person you cheated on AND yourself. If you want to be a hooker then be on the fucking corner. Male or female. I don't care. Getting off my soap box now. melissamills884: It's okay... I just know how much it hurts to find out that the person you trusted and loved is cheating. It's a truly evil thing to cheat. Just my opinion since I have first hand knowledge of it. I am so loyal but now I will be different for sure, not in the cheating part but in the trusting part and for that I am sad.  lustywildkitten: Um, decide whether you can be happy with one guy only. If not, discuss having an open relationship. Consider how you will feel been created on. Trust me, it is soul destroying. Most cheating partners are unhappy their relationships, but are comfortable having that person in their life, while the affair ignites a lust and passion, making them feel waneed and needed. If you feel wanted by your lover, then your bf needs to wake up or shape up or ship out. The longer you take to decide what to do, the higher your chances are of looking both and been totally on your own. | Self-Improvement Chat Room Similar Conversations |
