Im cheating and I can't stop!

justmejera
justmejera: Do you cheat( having sz^ with a guy but its only pure lust,no feelings) on your bf and wanting to stop because you know that cheating is wrong?And in the end your the one who's going to suffer?But you can't stop because fooling around is good and feeling wanted is what you want?

If you are,Please tell me your situation and how you're dealing with it.
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Massive Willy
Massive Willy: hmmm, leave the guy your with. Ya get with him now and he finds out later hes likely to kill ya... and cant say id blame him.

If he dont appreciate ya, start over with someone who will.
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Sorceress Warrior
Sorceress Warrior: yes, leave the guy your cheating on, dump the guy your cheating with, and if you need the kinky, look into s@& toys, or s~& therapy, people who help people with sexual issues. Cheating is a form of sexual problem and if you are feeling guilty, it means you do have a soul and are human, just like everyone else on this planet. There is help out there, go find it and don't be ashamed.
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WAYTOBIG
WAYTOBIG: I cheat,well not me directly the accountant does,we cheat the Government with the taxes.

Drop your poor boyfriend,the guy is eating sloppy seconds from the guy before him.
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justmejera
justmejera:
Thankx for the reply..
Im actually considering a therapy just because Im not sure if Im sick or something.
I know that I need to break up with my bf right now but I love him,
I don't know whats wrong with me coz I can separate Syz from LOVE.
Im not guilty at all, i think of the other guy as a sx$ object,he treated me the same way,no intimacy just pure fy&*$*% only.
I hate myself for being selfish.
But i Can't end it yet,not now....
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WAYTOBIG
WAYTOBIG: hahaha.I have been in the same situation before.
Had 3 women on the go every week.(same women) 2 singles and a married on,just strictly s*x no strings attached
Till I started getting sick of them.,Now we see each other every other month.You will get tired of it
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justmejera
justmejera: Yea,yea!
Im just waiting to get tired of him and get bored.
And I promise myself not to have another one,lol
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WAYTOBIG
WAYTOBIG: Nothing wrong with a healthy s&w appetite.
Enjoy as much as you can but drop the boy friend
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justmejera
justmejera: Well I think that's not an option for me,lol
I still want someone beside me at the end of the night,someone that truly love me.
Im not oh-so-addicted to s&#,i have some quiet time that I want to spend with my bf.
I only I can get 2-in-1
-Smart,rich,funny,responsible & loving & the other guy is a bad ass,disrespectful & dirrty,lol
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Massive Willy
Massive Willy: Think its safe to say you outta leave your bf anyway after alls said and done. But get rid of tis other guy too and start fresh.
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justmejera
justmejera: Everyone is telling me to leave them,but i dont want to be ALONE...
I have a good life and great future with my bf.

My bf and me dont get much s~$ coz he is always busy so I found one that give me sy$..
Don't I have the right to have good sz% once in awhile???
I know its wrong but i am not depriving myself with a great orgasm once in awhile.
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Massive Willy
Massive Willy: Well ya put the orgasm ahead of the relationship. You go through it still without tellin him that makes you a horrible bi*ch...

If your fine with that go for it but otherwise you crippled those chances to get laid more often.
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justmejera
justmejera: Nothing to see here. Post deleted by user.
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deuce916
deuce916: You sound scared my dear. Just try to do what you want rather than what is right or wrong.
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jim-jim!
jim-jim!: hey... i'm not judging you but really... you shouldn't treat someone you love like that. how would you feel if he did it to you? i really feel for you cos i've done it myself & REALLY regretted it for a very long time after. good luck dear
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Nosferatu
Nosferatu: Original poster, I'm glad that you brought up this topic because it's something I've been thinking about lately. I'm not sure that I would approach this situation differently than you. I've never been in love so I can't really relate but if I was dating someone and they stopped having s*$ with me I probably would look for it elsewhere like you. Life is supposed to be sweet so why deny yourself the pleasure of a great s%@ life because your partner is impotent?

Frankly if there is a simple solution to why your lover isn't sleeping with you then solve it, but I'm going to go against the grain here and say that you aren't in the wrong. Although, cheating on your partner can be dangerous. This world is full of cuckoos that love revenge so I would be careful about sneaking around behind your boyfriends back. I always envision the horrible story of Lorena Bobitt everytime I think of cheating on someone and the repurcussions.
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ebil_debil
ebil_debil: ebil has no love
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WAYTOBIG
WAYTOBIG: Since you keep bring your boyfriend in to this topic,4 things keep punching my brain,

1)Your boyfriend is f^~x&#y a bigger b*zwz than you.
2)Your boyfriend has not interest in you.
3)Your boyfriend is gay.
4)You must be a lousy dead f*zw.
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Massive Willy
Massive Willy: I gotta agree
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racerjon
racerjon: I only have one question. You say that you love your boyfriend. That is a good thing but you have to ask yourself this; Are you IN love with him? There is a big difference between being in love and being in heat.

I agree with some of the other posters that you should seek out some sort of help/counseling.
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Dann4nn
Dann4nn: "There is a big difference between being in love and being in heat."

HAHAHA I love how you made her sound like a musk ox!
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Massive Willy
Massive Willy: lol. in heat, im surprised no one threw that in sooner.
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leo12981
leo12981: If having cake and pie is your thing. Make damn sure no one knows about the pie, and I mean no one!!
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SouthernHospitality
SouthernHospitality: How can people say they love someone when they're cheating on the person? If you really loved the person you're with, then you wouldn't cheat on them. People seem to think that if they have a serious relationship aside from their promiscuous lifestyle this still helps them maintain some modicum of decency, but the fact of the matter is, if you sleep around, then you're still a wx$wy/man-wz@#@, whichever applies. Having a serious relationship despite your liberal sexual lifestyle does not change this. So why not just break up with the person you're with and quit wasting their time, which allows them to go out and find someone decent to be with, and accept your inherent promiscuousness and just go out and have as many purely sexual relationships as you want? This way no one is getting hurt or putting effort into a relationship that's not worth the effort.
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marshallhale
marshallhale: Well I'm sure posting that you are cheating along with your picture should address the issue itself. Come on! Hope someone you fall head over heals in love with cheats on you.

Once a cheater always a cheater!
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rougneck707
rougneck707: If you want to be promiscuous go ahead but dont torture another as you go along with your passions. It is not fair to ask someone to stand by you when you are going to be abusing them that way. It isnt right. By the same token if he knows you're doing that he should have sense enough to leave.
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