What do you feel is the number one thing that women don't understand about men?
andersonarts2017: That genuine man likes to eat pussy and give a woman everything he has. The guys who don't are not worth your timne.
diva_savannah: Communication hands down. If I talk to another female we talk easily an hour, talking to a guy...5 minutes top. 2 totally differnt types of Communication going on between the sexes. 🤔🤔🤔
billylettich: Most men,but not all men don't understand women need multiple levels of positive acknowledgement for emotional, mental, physical, and appearance to satisfy they are an equally appreciated member of their infrastructure. Majority of men don't realize male and female brains are not equally fueled. A woman's brain needs more but usually doesn't get it, so they use anxiety or adrenaline in other ways to satisfy the minds chemicals imbalance creating false or negative stimulation. Which counter acts the male brain into ignoring, overlooking, or selectively choosing how to respond making some relationships actually toxic and unhealthy for both genders. Kinda sad but a worldly problem. Then add government, state, church, peer, and family issues they just ignore things that could be solved, or cured with a few minutes of positive thoughts and compliments. It dates back to primal instinct responses that are outdated. Think before you speak guys, Tarzan and Jane days are long gone, unless you role play! might help not solve lol set up monthly gift clubs dont have to remind or forget flowers, chocolates, jewelry, shoes, etc. And throw in the spontaneous you look great today don't know if it's your hair, make up, or fashion but keep up the good work dear! Happy wife, happy life, and even the kids learn and mimic their like sponges makes their lives better too! Just my opinion and advice but positive overruns negative every single time! Spread around positive and positive pays back with healthy life! Didn't want to go there, but you ask ! wasn't sure if you wanted the truth!
junyabee: Thinking their body's lure can be the long-lasting emotional hook Looking for Lust at the wrong "Church" https://www.academia.edu/82420959/Looking_for_Lust_at_the_wrong_Church_
Lexielex777: I feel that some women think the number one thing women don't understand about men is the way in which they think to make a decision... Like they may make the decision quicakk enough and have the answer... but the way their brain clicked over to come up with that decision is some women may not understand. To be fair, some women will get what the man says but is not concerned about how they come up with the way they made that decision. While other woman may have thought that they know what his decision will be but when he says it, it conflicts with what the woman thought, going by other decisions that he has made. I don't think woman would understand unless the man takes the woman through a step by step approach showing how he thought it rhrougn.
junyabee: @Lexielex777, The social and cultural choreography obstructs both men and women. Since the obstructions deflect spontaneity, Men as the qualities of Nature, take the least path of resistance. So that the short-term release sought by men at such websites gives the mixed signal of carnal desire, than the need for spontaneity which is distorted by the choreography.
I, myself, seek transactional actions than emotional symmetry, since actions are more defining
Lexielex777: Junyabee. no I don't but if you put Transaction vs Emotion by Pau Higham you will find it
andersonarts2017: It's pretty much unmistakeable that men and women are different in their thinking. The mind is more powerful than the body, duh. The main thing that women in general don't understand about men is that we are not as much emotional as women, so we can't communicate on the same level as a woman. That's perfectly how God made us. Because of this difference, men and women are attracted to each other naturally and when they fall in love, then the cookies come out of the oven burnt to a crisp.
andersonarts2017: Men and women who want true love should ignore the temptations of the world and focus on that special someone who rocks your world.
junyabee: @Andersonarts2017- You posted, "...The main thing that women in general don't understand about men is that we are not as much emotional as women, so we can't communicate on the same level as a woman..."
It brought to mind the sociological debate between Max Weber-Functionalism, and Emile Durkheim-Structuralism
I'm more sympathetic to the functionalism theory, since an act can break the prior structural mode, creating another pattern that's followed for its utility of ends. Our hunter gatherer gifts are still strong enough for men, who more often face more acute challenges than the more aesthetic convenience challenges for women (pregnancy and child-rearing/nurturing being their very serious concerns, as the exceptions in their cognitive world).
Both genders have acculturated around these models with the derived anomalies which greater cultural and social latitude have created. Except for men with fetishes for weapons and power, most men will focus on the urgent than the passing default aggravations of the times. Women for a myriad of reasons use the license of 'drama' for their ego props of social juxtaposition with others.
Thus the dynamics of women's propositions of importance and men;s reactions to them
andersonarts2017: I understand what you are saying. Your mind is high technology. I love that. I hate any human who has fetishes for warfare, or endeavors for lording over one another.
What are your thoughts on procreation and child rearing? I love children. Do you?
junyabee: Acute mumps when I was 10 removed that option which was unfortunately (at first) seen as a detriment. Then after my 3 marriages I'm thankful for just having the 'play thing'-only! Procreation, since I don't have the literal or figurative 'dog' in the hunt I see as Ma Nature's bio-chem shop for various and plentiful diversity. The P.O.C's (Products of Conception), normally named for the aborted remains, but also, technically, the viable birth; that viable birth is a responsibility best nourished by caring, guiding love, so they don't fuck-up their's or other lives when its their turn.
As far as the progenitor procreator's "being fruitful" only in the balance of reasonable bio-spheric balance, and individual maturity by the procreators to be responsible fiduciaries for that live replication of a potentially very destructive creature, who WILL outgrow the 'cute kid' image and persona one day