How far would a guy go to get laid lisa_sancho: So this guy sends me the personal letters his "bitch" sends him as he calls her. The reason he sends them to me, he wants to impress me into having sex with him. Yeah he figures if I see how she writes about him, I ll be impressed with all he is and have sex. I think he must hate her, either that or is very desperate. Question is, how far would a guy go to get laid? (Post deleted by lisa_sancho ) (Post deleted by lisa_sancho ) JCOU812: Guys will go a long way to get laid. It is what they do. Some go about it in strange ways like the guy you are talking about. I never understood guys telling women about their past women. Does that impress any woman? lisa_sancho: Apparently so JCOU, I think they want to establish themselves by bragging about past women. And IMAO Mel, was it worth the 130 miles Captain Canada: It's animal behaviour at it's best Male animals regardless of species will travel miles,fight and even die just have the opportunity to mount a female in mating session What makes man different friendly_now_mp: Men have gone to great lengths to be with me. Doesn't impress me much though. When I'm not interested I ignore them. Sadly some people have thought I was playing hard to get. calypso84: Funny thing,because I asked myself (and my friends) the same question lately I've met a guy at work and after a pretty long time of staring,smiling and chit chatting, he asked me about my fb. There we started our all-day-everyday chatting. He finally asked me out for dinner to some fancy restaurant. Then there was another date, great time at work just so that I could find out he's actually married. And what he's looking for is a lover. I said "no". So all that just to get in the sack! And there was still more to come. Bringing me desserts, lunch, sending me links to the songs with "meaningful" lyrics, showing up suddenly or even sending roses. All that only to finally get me,because this is how it feels. So yea, men are able to go very far to get what they want. friendly_now_mp: Yep, sounds familiar. He's cheap, that's all. Not board. Just stingy. Be cautious of this. Men like this are always "stingy" with their loved ones. They're control freaks. Emotional cheapskates. Poor wife. Poor kids. They're always looking for "something" on the side, not someone. With people like him " feelings and commitment " are the enemies. He keeps peoples feeling safely in a jar( in his garage- next to his plyers). People like that are emotionally bankrupt period. They really do like it that way. Its tough growing up, ya know? quarks: Them will build ships... sail seas, defy kings, battle armies and defy god, or gods. Assuming history and legends hold any truth, them will do all this and more. calypso84: A guy was pursuing me for half a year just to get laid. Right after I "surrendered", I got to know he actually has got a girlfriend that he doesn't love. He's 45 years old, claimed he wanted to have a baby with me, was talking about love, but I could never see it in his actions. His girlfriend is the same as him. They cheat on each other and all that keeps them both together is money. It's a well prospering business. The moment I fully realised the lack of ony kind of higher virtues, materialism and emotional coldness was the moment when I left him. Can't stand a human disgrace like this one. Beautiful facade hiding a completely rotten inside. I just wanted to see how far he can go with all this. Never loved him. I think it's impossible to love someone like him. tktktk670670: I have gone?to great lengths before. I let a girl practice karte on me once. That was a huge mistake and I never did it again flamingred: friendly now, said When I'm not interested I ignore them. Sadly some people have thought I was playing hard to get. wow is that ever true friendly, it seems with some men, if they want to have sex with me and I politely declined and just want to be conversation friends, well I was just leading them on and it is all my fault . Just amazes me when a man has that attitude , Plumpcherry: Iām relearning and gathering new lessons from these post. Thank you all for sharing and informing me. |