is it wrong to be with a married man? (Page 2) hugs2U: The smart money is on the Word of God. Don't do it! It will mess your life up and leave you morally bankrupt.  andersonarts2017: i really like my moms husband and cant help it. is it so wrong to be with him? It depends on what your spiritual beliefs are. Obsviously the people in the last days are confused about the word of god about marriage between a man and woman andersonarts2017: I'd say its wrong to have a relationship with a married person. First, if the person is married they should divorce first before getting involved with someone else lest you are cheating. If you are so disatisfied in your marriage then divorce first then go and find someone else.  Pipewipee: I will say think the whole thing through ,from the moment you kiss them to the moment you say goodbye, and everything in between. Is it really worth it ? It's a lot to consider .I don't think he would respect you afterwards . What'sthe age difference ? How much doyou have in common after sex wears off I think about things like that (Edited by Pipewipee)  MsEcho_Yup: There are a lot of guys out there, but you only get one Mom (most of the time.) Honesty is really important, living lies sucks!
andersonarts2017: @MsEcho_Yup Your statement about your mom is ridiculous. Of course you and any person has one mom, and by placing brackets around the statement 'most of the time' means you have hard core issues with your own mom. Woman, no parent is perfect, no person is perfect. The worst thing we do is judge each other and especially when we divulge into criticizing our parents faults, we become our own worst enemy. I have labored over the same sentiments as you, and found that the only salvation there is, is God above. We must understand that we are created just like an artisan makes a clay cup and that is our place in life as a servant, not a master. By the way, how is life in Maryland? MsEcho_Yup: Well, you completely misread what I was trying to say, but perhaps you won't like my original meaning any better. I was actually saying that sometimes people can have more than one Mom. Addition , not subtraction. I had a Mom, a Dad, and another mother figure who I was close to. Also, some folks actually have two Moms. I hope you enjoy your religion, I hope it makes you do kind things, not mean things. Believing or not believing is a very personal thing. Your answers are not my answers. Life is good.  deacon7771: Well said MsEcho! I concur! andersonarts totally misread what you said in your earlier post and seriously, it seems to me that he was just looking to be some sort of "virtue signaling" TROLL!! Like a lot of trolls, he chooses to misunderstand what he reads just so he can call someone a "heretic" or "blasphemer" or whatever else he is spouting off this day. Maybe he will "rally the troops" and get all the villagers to bring their pitchforks and torches, and we will have a good old fashioned witch burning!!! NOT!!! andersonarts2017: @MsEcho_Yup, probably I did misread you. I aint out to start giant arguments. The very thing we are using, text messaging is substandard to normal human-to-human conversation. Messaging quality is way less than communicating in the real world,. Forgive me please if I offended you. To your original point, my upbringing came from one biological mom and dad which is getting rarer and rarer these days. My parents were imperfect, and there were a few great role models around who encouraged me to become a better man growing up. So yeah, the concept of having another mom is not out of norm with me. I can sympathize with that plight. Look, when you said the phrase "most of the time" it made an alarm bell go off in my head into what I went through, and me thinks its great to socialize and try and understand the plight of your parents. It just got me a little mad at the thought that you judged your mom too much Echo. I relate to you like you're a sister I never had cause I grew up bound with just one brother. Sharing is important and I did not mean to cause you distress. Like the nice movie says, "do we have terms?" (see this) MsEcho_Yup: I appreciate the kind words from both of you. I jump the gun sometimes myself, misread someone's intent. We are fine. Every family situation is different. Some people are great parents, and sadly some are terrible. Abuse of a child is unforgivable.No, we are good! MsEcho_Yup: Hi Anderson, hi Stray, I hope I never grow up all the way. At this rate, I'm not too worried about that.  straywlf: Hello MsEcho. I heard if you haven't grown up by 50 you don't have to! Growing older is mandatory, growing up is optional.  SoulSister2023: I think the real question is, "What is right about getting involved with a married man?" I don't think there are any good answers to that. Imo.  MellowMac: It's just hurtful to one of the couple that are possibly married or just living together. If he or she cheats it's pack your bags and get out. |
