is it wrong to be with a married man? deacon7771: I think it is not "wrong" or "right," nobody but you can answer the question "is it wrong?" because you alone know your situation and all the parties involved. I can offer to you my own experiences, there have been times in my past when I was with a married woman and it was NOT in any way "wrong" what we did. mickym 1066: That’s the key thing .... not to hurt loved ones. And think about long term relationships with loved ones sometimes you can’t repair the damage done by one moment of pleasure. mickym 1066: So hoping your staying safe. In Pretoria. Babe. Got a few friends living there in Jo-burg And they are self isolating. fletch59pm: Wouldn’t know, my wife passed away from cancer 9 years ago, never once thought about cheating, guess that’s why I’ve been alone since? An T: I say its wrong. I am guilty of this. Both instances the married men said they were single. So, they took from me what I offered them on the pretext that this relationship was going somewhere when they knew it wasn't. I got pregnant and the first time, I was asked to have an abortion. But that was my decision and I had the child. Just sharing. If people cheat then both parties need to be transparent. And, I also want to say, we should put ourselves in the other persons shoes. Dont do things just out of temporary pleasure or a drunken state that will impact us over the long term. My two cents. SweetChristianGal: Yes, 100% wrong and immoral. It's a lack of class, self-control, self-respect, dignity, morals and maturity. straywlf: Ok so in accordance with the original question....you want to have sex with your step dad? To help figure out if its right ask yourself would you hide your actions from your mom? Is it something that you would do openly? If not you pretty much already know the answer. In some families or to some people it would be acceptable. If it is something that everyone involved is ok with then the choice is yours. (Post deleted by friendlyguy9 ) |