What age gap is of for Dating Drill Sergeant: "ok" is quite subjective when it comes to this matter, imma say don't try to please society, be happy and enjoy your time spent together thas what matters, age difference is sometimes just a numba navanman222: Nothing wrong with an age gap once both of them are happy to be in the relationship. Both people can learn from each other prof351: I think the older you get the bigger the age gap can be. Although I think half your age is pushing it a bit. I'm 72 and can't see myself with a 36 year old woman. Late 40s or early 50s would probably be my max. As for 18 and 36. I haven't met many 18 year olds that are mature enough to handle being with someone twice their age. wwwild1: I struggle with wondering what I would have in common with someone so much younger. But age is just a number refurbwoodart: I'm 52 and I dont think I could to relate to someone under say 40. I did find one girl who was 28 who just loved me to death and I would do anything in the world for her but I'm sure it would eventually fall apart most likely. But I do want to fund a nice loving understanding woman if any are out there. The giant midget: If you can keep up walking around with your younger partner at a fast pace , jog or even pedalling a bicycle for hours on end. They are a keeper The giant midget: Oh forgot to mention on the post above maybe it's my old brain , but anyway if you can keep up with the younger gal and not suffer a heart attack Your keep her refurbwoodart: Well I don't have a problem in unfair shape. Its just that well I want more than sex alone. I mean just a nice friendly conversation,a dinner,nice day together,you know something. Just not Bing bang and stang. To do that the actual time between sex is much more pleasant. You know. imgonzothegreat: I dated a 19 year old gal recently for a cpl months..I didnt see a problem with it either did she ..but the peanut gallery wouldnt shut up..oh I never drop her off at school or the dad jokes start wayne49ish: as long as you both consenting adults then it all about the two of you and not one else. flamingred: yes , that is the way it should be wayne but in the real world just doesnt work that way flamingred: very slowly , it is much worse for mature women dating younger men, people's rudness and nasty comments usually end up splitting up different age couples wayne49ish: The rude people are the ones that don't matter. In my eyes it doesn't matter who is older just what is in the heart that is true. flamingred: yes , i know that but when people are constantly being rude with comments etc that tends to wear a couple down , it is what it is , just saying that kind of relationship has more to deal with than the norm flamingred: t think in couples with a big age difference , either the younger one is very mature for their age or the the older one is a bit immature for their age and mentally they meet up just my theory lol and wouldnt be all couples refurbwoodart: Red ill be honest I'm mature in my 50's and I lil older women generally. There has been twice that I dated women younger than me but it was because they were genuine and that's all. I'll be honest rich now I have a very very strong attraction to this one woman how is 10 years younger than me. However it has nothing to do with her age. She is just simply very much my type of woman. She's beautiful,smart,dark hair,hard worker,beautiful pale skin,her hair has a reddish tint to it. Basically she has a very deep Irish look to her. Thats just something I find very attractive as physical attraction goes. To be quite honest I have yet to find one single thing about her that I don't think is incredibly attractive. I'm sure she and others might think that because I'm older her being younger has something to do with I but trust me I like women my age predominately. But some ladies who are my age are more into the end of life comforts or looking for security and love to drink alot because they haven't found Mr perfect yet. I know usually the older we get the tougher it is to find someone but I honestly think that's because we have experience in what we really want in a partner and we limit ourselves due to our past relationships and noticing something familiar. I think we honestly only eliminate people that da or do something that reminds us of something that went wrong in the past. flamingred: that is a very interesting opinon refurbwoodart, thanks for posting , and I hope things all work out for you and as you say as we get more mature the search gets more difficult especially if we know pretty well what we want the field shrinks lol |