Happily Married ??? (Page 11) AretoNyx: Characters from fiction and real life stories. I can relate with both. I am glad you had a good memories of a gf. I mean I do not see anything as perfection as some think happen from stories or comparing grass being greener. Perfection in my experience does not exist even if some feel they have it.This for good, bad, and whatever they are just to love people for who they are.  refurbwoodart: Are to it seems you have a bleak view on love and relationships. I understand if so I know I looked down on it a long time after my divorce. However now I'm a little more open to it. Mostly because well honestly I love sex but I'm not a huge fan of sex with someone I don't have a caring sharing relationship with. If you have been jaded hun it gets better with time unless you let it make you bitter. So just keep your spirits up hun that hurt will ease away. Mine took a couple of years before I started actually missing a womans company but I'm trying to find someone intelligent and compatible now. refurbwoodart: Well I have a little different view there kev if it's a one nighter and both of us know that from the get go I can have a little fun and get a little pleasure that's one thing. But I definitely prefer having sex with feelings and not just for physical satisfaction. 
flamingred: well how come when i meet men they always want to jump in bed right away, they jsut want a warm body , they dont care who , where are the men like you two describe ????  Kev1n65: Unfortunately some people dont care who or what they are doing as long as they can release and go.  paulmansfield2009: lets not lose sight to the difference between lust & love any tom dick & harry can make love on a one night stand , men not like women seem to sail away with no guilt , women need more then that many have much to offer in the right light has may say only my views ; be safe all paul flamingred: paulman , this is so true many have much to offer in the right light... many men mistake some women as frigid but they dont realize it is the way they make love that turns a woman off with their wham bang thank mame moves , but then ... it is the man's loss refurbwoodart: Motati I'm not contradicting myself. All I said if you happen upon someone who mutually has only being sexually inviting for one night and you both agree that's ok. But I prefer to take time and make it special. I have never once had a one nighter that it wasn't clear that's all it was up front. That's different it means you both honestly just really want a night of good sex together. I'm not fond of it but hey it's been over four years for me so far I could handle a one nighter if I happen upon it.  straywlf: Never was much on wham bam...... during a conversation with a woman I know I was asked what was the best part of sex was. My honest reply was the 15 minutes right after when you lay in each other's arms. She said she never had the chance to do that. She said men always get up or roll over. I thought what a shame. AretoNyx: Some get married and have had a long marriage even after one night stands. At least I heard from a few. Even online or long distant dates leading to such. Some people can get along like that I guess.
AretoNyx: On an off note there are people on can pay to only cuddle or hug for company. I would rather just give free hugs. Sadly the pandemic makes it more difficult but I can still hug those that want to then use hand sanitizer? I hug my kids a bunch.  Searchonglostfrndask: For men or women that cant find the one .. Me I'm not ready * For Men & Women who cant find the one *I have thought of a few solutions * If you want to date to know the person you look for people that say date to know someone * If you want to be married you look for the male or female that says serious inquiries only *& marriage only on their profile * while searching through profiles * I have seen a few women wanting marriage * a few men wanting marriage * a few wanting serious relationship* only* The there is also taking a picture of yourself in color * you can do this on your cell phone and share it to your email * & type what you seek in a male or female * your name your age * your website page and your chat name * There is public bulletin boards * They reply to your public bulletin they go on your website and talk to you * This is all I can think of * everyone's faces are covered its dificult * I was walking trying to go to my car * I was smiling under my mask * trying to think of positive things * & she was grumbling about something .. I passed her she didnt think I could hear * she said * why does she have to look so angry about everything were all going through hell * I was smiling * through my mask * thinking positive affirmations * lol! you talk to the male/ female * see if your interested * & dinner and a movie night * buy those air forehead thermometers * lol! make sure he doesn't have a fever show him you dont have a fever * lol! go to a park away from everyone * or out doors McDonald's seats sanitise your area * have a good healthy chat * Meet at a meisrum* Wine tasting * Beer tasting * & see where it goes from there * The public Bulletins are going to be the way to go * newspapers cant help* internet isnt working * they seem to be most sabatogers * or completely opposite of what ones looking for * public bulletin is going to be future dating * (Edited by Searchonglostfrndask) AretoNyx: One can see smiling eyes. Though there are still ways people meet here they also do not have it enforced outside, for deaf to read lips, little kids, many who claim to have reasons not to wear , and none really care to check. All those extremist on either side are annoying, and those that break laws with public freak outs such as spitting on people or destroying property need to suck it up. However I wear a mask and my kids as well even though hubby refuses. Instead he sends me to run errands even though I see many just not wearing masks or properly wearing. Shrug Any how don't you have to remove a mask for eating? I really think people were angry more even before the masks. It has been a while many were not so much showing how they consistently feel for whatever...and instead being more fake. Humans... I rather public group meet ups. The fun of a group rather than one on one. I feel less lonely and no pressures. I like being the real me always and for some that maybe to intense. I get why many chat online and do much by even video. I found sabotagers offline more than online before I even joined social media like this. Chat rooms to real life have pervs and scammers through out history ( even before the internet). I expect there always to be challenges to meet people no matter source. I put up how I wanted to join others for fitness and all I get is many horny. Though I come to expect that from most. So I rather join groups. |
