What's so hard about being a housewife? (Page 4)
tattyteresa01: what shall I DO WITH MY CHILDREN ,i AM NOT GIVING THEM AWAY NOR CAN i push them back in my womb lol
theHating: Give them some encouragement and support, tatty, they'll climb back up there on their own or fail and finally move out...
tattyteresa01: for your info ,all my children have great jobs and families of their own ,thanks to divine intervention ,good night bye
Sir Loin: Kids moving out of home is a gradual process in my family, they try it several times, always coming back for a while until they finally find somewhere they like
johnson3277_sj: I was 21yrs old and a single father to 3kids aged 4,3&2 and still managed to keep a clean house have meals done washing done and plenty of time to spend with the kids playing butthese days mobiles have killed the respect people used to have for there homes instead its all facebook or whatever the latest fad is. With my last partner i would work 13hrs then have to come home clean do the washing and cook for the house and it was an argument to get her to put her phone down and help out or even put her clothes away she would just throw them on the floor not to mention she had a 1yr old son who craved her attention but she was always to busy with her phone she would put him in the high chair and just put the tv on then when her phone was close to dead she would put him into his bed and lay in the room on her phone whilst it was charging the world has gone stupid these days what ever happened to keeping a house clean and and having respect for your home.
If the world didnt go soft and worry about everything or hurting someones feelings and crap like that and kids still got proper discipline we wouldnt have 10yr olds roaming the streets at night and 12-15yr old being impregnated via pure stupidity or lack of knowledge.
The problem as i see it is by removing the right to discipline a child has also inadvertently removed any respect that children once had not to mention that a good arse whooping taught the lesson that actions have consequences.
Now children walk all over there parents and the parents get the blame because when they become teens or adults they have no basic knowledge of living or responsibility because as a parent discipline is the tool that has been used for centuries to instill them basic human qaulities.
PROVE ME WRONG!
Goddess Of Shadows: i agree with you. social services started out as a church funcrltion to help abused kids and now has become a money making racket for states
Sir Loin: Dunno what happens in USA but it's a corrupt radical feminazi organisation here with one goal: To suppress fathers and alienate kids from them
Goddess Of Shadows: here it forces women to stay with abusive spouses. Takes children away from parents that dont want to be a live in family returns children to ppl that have drug issues some times up to 15 times. If parents have no issues the kids are removed till child support some times in excess of 4, 000 dollars is paid if they cant pay it then children go to foster care permantly and if young blonde and blue eyes they are adopted out
Sir Loin: well, at least there's no forced adoption in NZ and the govt actively encourages family breakups by giving pretty good pay to the wife if she leaves
Sir Loin: not really, all she needs to say is she wants out and she get $500 a week, plus the family home
Goddess Of Shadows: But children need both parents. If dad isnt able to fulfill that role then i get cutting him out of their lives but if its just the adults cant get along then its wrong
Sir Loin: the husband is often bankrupted, some are made to pay more in child support than they earn
Sir Loin: of course they need both. In NZ cutting Dad out and alienating kids from him is standard practice because most social workers seem to be feminist
Goddess Of Shadows: i dont think there are federal guide lines for social services i have seen many a social worker lie about an issue