Why do people block parents on wire for just being one,& be offended so as to have a post about being a parent? (Page 2)
AretoNyx: There is on wire chat rooms for politics , science, games, and other than dating. Some use forums and chat as such , and others don't. Shrug
Leda Muir: Because most are teens or young adults and we won't that mom or dad come online and say oh hi sweetie how are you, talking with your buddies. It is embarrassing, parents use words which were cool 10-20 years ago like buddy, pal. We just say friends or crew, some say sista or brotha that is cool by us, also some say dude or chick. Parents can embarrass us and they don't know it so we avoid them. Some also if they have a daughter, talk with a girl when did you grow your boobs my girl did when 13-14, i know i had to shop for some bras with her and then her periods. OK but a stranger don't need to know, that is your daughter and keep it for you for her it is embarrassing you tell a stranger about her first bra her first period. My dad once chatted with some boys asking if the got already erections from girls i was from wtf dad that is their secret don't ask i also don't tell oh i did it for the first time when i was ....It is my secret i liked it and nobody has to know when i had sex for first or if i even had sex. Parents are nice raised us and i'm thankful i can walk earth because mom and dad decided to make me but pls don't embarrass me. I was 15 with friends and you know girls under each other talk about boys when mom came, she Leda did you do it safely where all my friends were with me she asked if i had safe sex i could sink in the ground worst was mom asked and where is your boyfriend or do you do it with girls, i was from mom stfu or i hit you and then the ultimatum of pure shame mom asked all my friends if they do it safely i was from oh no she didn't come on mom seriously why. They are curious OK but also they don't know how they can embarrass us and that is why we avoid them as their children because we are always sure they gonna make us ashamed. I was 18 when dad made me wanna kill myself it was the last year of high school, the prom evening and each girl went with their bf too it dad came he at that time she is at home, no smooching with her and dude i will find you if she is 1 second later then i told you, if i know you did have sex with my little girl i come and skin you worst was dad did this in the dancehall everyone heard it saw it and laughed with me also some felt with me. I had my prom tried to make the best of it then the kiss and who pulled my bf of me my father he was whole time waiting to see if my bf would keep on dads rules. My friends where from Poor Leda what a father she has and to be honest i wanted to skin dad even beat him up because for me he fucked up my prom one of the most beautiful moments supposed to be in my life. So parents need to know we avoid them because they make our life to a hell sometime
Leda Muir: Tbh if i have a child i won't know they did it or if it is a son he has a boner it isn't he need to say mom i'm hard look my boner so keep it secret
Leda Muir: I know but it isn't to me to know that it isn't like i have for first sex go to mom and said look mom i'm a woman i did it yay she would skin me alive. i bet if i was a boy mom won't know i had a hard one
Leda Muir: True even i do but i mean i don't need to know when they have one or that they even have one
SCSilk: I would never ask anyone something that personal. I have no need to know.
I’m also not a parent.
AretoNyx: Leda do you think facebook parents talk like that? All I know is men and women both online come on social networking many different ways. It is one thing to witness what a person does and another to stereotype.
My daughter uses facebook but I never say dumb stuff like that to her. If you have parents doing pervy stuff with you then you should call the authorities. If you have urges just understand sex education like consent , and safe sex. Though I never ask personal questions like that.
I just tell her be safe about everything in general. Nothing else really is needed, and hopefully people are going to effort safety.
Most parents do not know if they do things unless a kid tells them or they make it possible to publicly know.
Block perverts online, but do you know perverts are not a new thing ? When I was a kid in AOL chat rooms there were perverts then too even when there was a supposed moderator. Not everyone on the planet that communicates online is going to be a kid either , and some are younger than given a email of their own. Reality is not easy to fave for many it seems.
If your mom and dad are odd jerks doesn't mean all parents would do that sort of thing in front of their friends. My kids will not be on wire because there are to many odd perverts and that sort of thing she tries to avoid.
AretoNyx: Not everyone that has blocked me is my child. So this sort of odd asking of questions and blocking does not apply to my kids.
Most adult people know boys get erections, and women can get horny too. I do not really care.
chrissy costanza: I bet Leda meant that kids don't like to speak with their parents online when friends can see it and like she said even i don't wanna know if a guy has a erection, i know they see a pic and hup a hard one but tell me from Chrissy i got so hard on your pics i don't wanna know
AretoNyx: To more likely prevent seeing erections on wire one can communicate with being offline.
I don't communicate online when I can chat face to face with my kids. That is just lazy to only chat online with kids. Also emailing and such is easier than chatting in private messages. I can text if having to as well. The whole world doesn't need to know details.
Still that isn't what the topic is about. It isn't just about only kids blocking parents.
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AretoNyx: I get why kids do not want to chat to parents. This doesn't explain odd behavior of strangers.
chrissy costanza: No well buddy when i was 16 i fought in the army against the Russians, now it is playstation, TV, Computers and other lazy stuff in my time we didn't had it. Women in my time had arms like men not those weak pudding arms like that of yours. Look those hands how soft mine were full of blisters and calluses and still the youth are to complain they work hard hahaha my ass hard working if i worked like they do now i ran around as a kid of 5.
Do you think we young people like such talk from old people. Even mom is from I worked in Italy my ass of for money because i wanted my own car when i was 18, my parents didn't say sweetie her and buy one i had to work for. Dad said each morning my father woke me at 04.30AM to clean the chicken ren, gave the animals to eat at the farm after dad took me in the fields to harvest the veggies, i got a few $ and safed it to buy what i desired.
You mom can i have $50, dad can i have a $100 like mommy and daddy are a bank, we had to work for money as kids while you think the parents are a charity. Chrissy if you need money work for it.
Kids don't like to been put on their place and avoid all what work on their nerves so even the parents, i see i need mom and dad that they are right they work for their money i have to do once i was old enough now i say mom & dad here some $100 that is for you because they gave me enough when i was a kid and teenager. Most don't see they wrong think mom & dad are a bank and if they say no it is mom the greedy bitch and dad the filthy jerk. Respect them because you need them even you think as kid fuck off mom go lick some balls and dad fall dead, realize who gave you food, who bought you clothes, who bought toys, made you laugh as lil kid, gave love and wanted the best for you, your parents. One day it change then it is sweetie shake up my pillow, can you pls take me on a walk, shall we visit mom or dad at the graveyard then you realize poor mom, poor dad i was suck a jerk as kid one day they will need you.
Indeed as teen we are from ey pssst did you had your bf to a friend she maybe says yes he was good in bed i really enjoyed it. Boys will be from ey did you saw that hotty over there look those nice titties and look those legs damn she is hot i would love her in my bed.
But if mom or dad as sweetie do you have someone you like it is like your brain explode all fuses pop and you don't know what to say because no one like to talk about sex with their parents. I know mom came to me when i was 15 a box of Durex, i was from aaaaaa wtf. Mom said Chrissy you have a bf, you are 15 and i know maybe think about playing on a naughty way with him those are for around his, i started from LALALALA UFO UFO LALALA. Mom said you don't need to listen i tell it for your best i mom i put that around my bf his weener before i sit on it.
It was like my mother got a hit from a hammer on her head, she that girl is 15 and tell me how to use a condom where do they know it from.
We kids look around on the net found a porn site and take a look even we aren't allowed it says when not 18 exit do you believe a guy of 15 press that no he press enter.
I know i googled as teen Naked boys and got a whole list of boys with their peen in show. It isn't we wanna that our parents know we do that kind of stuff so we avoid them because scared they will find out we had sex, watch porn, have a bf or gf and won't show them at home. It isn't that we say ewww old people ewww fuck it they are so stupid they even don't know what a PC is, they think a new modern game for kids. No we just don't wanna that our parents know we can be naughty or are naughty behind their back.
chrissy costanza: More and more kids become sexual, talk with other kids about sex, lovers, their first time. It ain't fun if your parents come after it, for example, you are 15 have a lover and had a bit sexual fun, it ain't cool if your parents know you had a sexual experience with someone so that is why kids block them mostly. They wanna hide things which they think of they can be punished for by their parents.
Leda Muir: I did once because I was 15 and with some female friends chatting about boyfriends in a chatroom. I was scared my mom would find out I had a bf I kissed with and cuddled.
As teen that is a bit secret because you won't oh Leda with her bf, is he cute. A parent can make a fun situation go terrible awkward so that is why we ignore them.
Now it is mom & dad look, my boyfriend, I love him so. As adult you don't mind it a teen or kid does, now I can say parents you can't without them but what do they know honey. As a kid it is like moooooom pls stop it you make me ashamed pls mom stop, teens wanna be cool and dislike them parents be involved with it