Once upon a time,i snatched my child into my arms

harlett anathema: In a quiet moment when no one else was looking....and let my depth-less LOVE for him pour out into him.. as i said... You will trust me for life,with anything that might be distressing you...

my reasons for having done so.. when i did in fact and all living realities,do just that... might differs from your's...ease your mind and more importantly that of your child's.. by giving them that open invitation.. don't take it for granted that they know it.. even though they might respond with saying just that....

and if you think...something is troubling anyone of your children... and that you might have a inkling...gently prod...ask...and just speak up & out on what you suspect might be the case....that's troubling your child...

harlett anathema: here's a clue.....that your child has reached a stage where that child's own Conscience is kicking in.......Your child will hesitate too lie,will fumble at it till they can become comfortable at it......they will flush with how do you know..and means your child can feel pain when embarrassed... can be made too feel the pain of shame...

there is no greater pain that there is no pill for... then too feel emotional embarrassment or shame....& is a facet too being a human being of either gender that should never be used to discipline anyone....

harlett anathema: children will experience as vivid dreams as you do....and if you can wake up,feeling a sense of distress,or of elation.. so can your child be...

not all children are the same... so even though you might have older children who handled this that the other quite well... you very well might have a child... whose lets say similar too me... who found sexual mockery/bullying from children at other children when a child.. rude.. !!!..