I'm not excited for my twin's possibility of being a dad...

Sena
Sena: I mean... first he was feeling like he'd never find someone. then he did. Been with her for a few weeks then she "could" possibly be pregnant, and he is excited.... she excited... But I'm not. I want to be happy for him... but...

It's because he is not out of college yet. He has at least 1-2 years left!
And of course, what if he gets sick, she gets sick, the baby gets sick?
They do not have anything put aside for the kid... And I know children are expensive, mainly in the first year because of clothes, diapers, food, beds, etc

I just don't want to see him have to struggle with dealing with all this along with having a kid... There's so many things that could go wrong with right now....him having a kid.

And now I've made him upset, since I just cannot feel super excited... Yes it'll be a wonderful thing, but... I feel he needs to at least be out of college. This "pregnancy possibility" was planned, but then he says he wants to wait until after college. Well, obviously he DOESN'T want to wait. and hasn't thought it through..
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TaylorJRheney
TaylorJRheney: Well feel good that he at least made it into college. I'm a senior in high school and I have twin sons! Lol Be happy for him
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yvonnechvz03
yvonnechvz03: Your feelings will probably change when the baby comes both of my parents were the same way when I told them i was pregnant they were upset and said that I better finish school and support my son my dad didn't talk to for 6 months he didn't even look at me my mom stop talking to me as well than when I had my son and brought him home they loved him and helped me care for him my mom would watch him when I went to school and sometimes if I ran out of formula for him my dad would go to the store and pick some up for him and they all have an incredible bond so don't worry. I have 2 more kids now and my husband and I both have our careers.
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