Is here any 1 who hates theır father? (Page 6) jllynn: I love my Dad a phsycologist tried to say he was the one that molested me. He never touch me in that way. That person Pat Hamilton who's in Washington state now: also she took all my trust and abused it by telling people things that I talked to her about. I should have sued her.  game95freek: I hate my father because when I was young he was never around, and when he was he would yell and put and make me feel like a bad son. He still treats me poorly now. Whenever I see him he always sees my faults. I hate my father because he does not love me. And I know I wasn't physically abused but I was verbally abused enough to make me insecure and quiet around most people.  (Post deleted by staff ) Comrade_: Never hate your dad, I'm not making excuses but they're humans too and fatherhood can be a hard thing for some..just learn from it and be a better father and spread that.  DubsGirl: I understand what you are saying... however.... I refuse to love a man who beat me as a kid. Looking back at my childhood now, I see the horridness that was there. I am a mother of 2 now, and I could NEVER even think about hitting one of them. A pop on the butt? Sure.... but NOTHING compaired to what I went though. And for that reason, I hate my father, end of story. No one can tell me any different. My father is an ass.... always has been..... always will be,. Comrade_: Don't have to love him either. Sorry you had to deal with that. Maybe our ideas of hate is differently, to me hate takes up time and emotions. DubsGirl: Where my father is concerned.... I have NOTHING to do with him. I have long since grown out of the "hate" stage. I have no emotions toward him.... I just cant stand to be around him anymore. Thats why we live in different states. I keep my distance..... and he keeps his. Part of that might be because I told him that he ever laid one finger on one of my kids, I would put him in the ground,That might have scared him a bit,... and to be honest.... that suits me. Comrade_: Ah yes, ok that is the emotion I meant, as not hate but indifference..as if washing your hands from someone. Wish all the best for you and your kids, some people don't learn from experiences as that, instead they go back with a partner who is the exact replica. DubsGirl: Oh no me. I could not be with someone who was like my father  . That alone is a scary thought  haley jade: i agree, after what my father did, he raped me for 5 years. hes gettin out of jail may 1st and hes 10 miles away from my house. i cant have any contact with his side of the family at all, and everyone on my moms side is dead so i have no family, i have biopolor, depression, ptsd and alot of other shit and ive been put in a mental institute 4 times because of what he did to me, i have a problem with cutting and it really hurts that he took one of the two most needed things for an 8 year old to develope properly in the world (a good childhood)  ButtersFtw: I Don't Hate My Dad. He Was The Best Father In The World, He Was My Bestfriend, He Loved Me No Matter What. He Died January 9th 2011 & I Miss Him Sooo Much. Don't Ever Say You Hate Your Father Over Something Stupid Like Teenage Drama. Because One Day He Wont Be There & You Will Regret It, & Miss Him. Don't Wait Until Its Too Late . .  lavendar_star: Well everyone is not luckily some like haley on the post above had horrible fathers and some like me had no fathers when were growing up I cant bother waste my energy to hate my father he is not even worth that.  liz37153715: not hating your father or just forgiving him could chang your life i love my dad because my mom died when i was 10 soo i love my father lavendar_star: I will never forgive my father he choose to walk out on me from a early age that is unforgivable, not hating him is enough for me but I respect your opinion @liz (Edited by lavendar_star) BrookelleBones: when i was 5 my dad left me ntold me i was a peice of shit n that im not his daughter anymore n to never come look for him,he dont want me etc. il never forget it i apsulutly hate my father. im 16now n still havent seen him or spoke to him. but i will always love him just as much as i used to </3 Sassy: My father abandoned my mother and me when I was very young and he is still a moron. Then, my mother married another guy and had two daughters with him. Last year, he was caught in the act with a young girl, so it turned out that my half-sisters have a jerk for a father as well. What is it with men and lack of responsibility? The worst for me was that my step-father tried to convince me that he was nothing like my real father and for many years, I believed him and admired him for being such a gentleman. But unfortunately, in his case, the coin had to faces... lavendar_star: "What is it with men and lack of responsibility?" I agree with you there even it would be some but still a significant number, how can you have a child and not have care in the world what they are doing, if they are happy, let alone abandon them in the first place. sad world we live in and not having a father around makes some people have a f*ucked up life. | Parenting Chat Room 28 People Chatting Similar Conversations |
