Why Do Moms Allow Their Teen Daughters To Dress Like Sluts? (Page 4) Sir Loin: There's nothing wrong with adults being friends with minors. I'm 63, my youngest friend is 4. Not everything is about sex you know. Some people just like kids  Nicotina: So what you are really saying, Angry Beaver, is that you're just an innocent young lad right?  avazoe: Kids know more then ppl think an know how to deal w creeps an pervs. An if its hot out an we dont wear much its ur prob for thinkin bad shit. deal w it! Sir Loin: Nicoyina, if an adult having friends who are kids concerns you, that concerns me. I like kids, they're honest and full of wonder at the world around them. It's so very refreshing. I am a school teacher and all my students are minors. Teacher doesn't always have to be the ugly grumpy old man up front of the class (although I can do that). Sometimes he becomes a friend. Nicotina: I would never have classified any teacher as a friend. Some I admired greatly, others I loved. Where they my friends though, no. Children are wonderful and deserve to be treated with respect. Part of that respect is to not have inappropriate relationships with them. Sir Loin: I remember one teacher in particular who was my friend, we became mountain climbing buddies while I was still at school although not in his class Nicotina: The person most likely to abuse a child is someone close to the child such as a family member, teacher, neighbour, so those "friendships" are inappropriate when it is a child. The adult is supposed to be the protector of the child, the mentor. edit - I would not define any relationship I have with a child are primarily one of friendship. (Edited by Nicotina) Sir Loin: I guess that's true in many cases. It's a sad indictment on what society has become though Nicotina: Society has always been that way. Society didn't suddenly become more abhorrent, we just grew up and realised the scope of some of the terrible things that can happen in this world. Sir Loin: In my experience people are so often very willing to assume the worst. In these cases they are usually talking about themselves rather than the person they're accusing Nicotina: Is that a thinly veiled accusation? I could possibly be interpreting your comment incorrectly. Nicotina: In no way did I intend to accuse or imply that of you. I was stating the reason why a friendship between a child and an adult is inappropriate. Certainly adults and children can be friendly with each other. Sir Loin: good, I'd hate to think you were suggesting anything wrong. I like the rest of your comments  leona_smith_torquay: I am 20, i have never dressed like a slut, who ever you are need a brain implanted. Girls are Girls and dress who they like, if you dont l;ike what we wear, dont look. | Parenting Chat Room 10 People Chatting Similar Conversations |
