How old is to old? (Page 8)
d36t83: Old is the point of time where history a past point we live in that as gone from present but what was our future event
kittyfriendly: Give the man a break. Focus on raising the two children. You still have a lot of work ahead of you. He is tired and I don't blame him.
sunny_789: Why have another child now? it will be quite an age gap between that child and your others which will be hard on the child as well as the fact that when the others are starting to be more independent, you will still be running around after another - even when your husband is looking at retirement and you should both be thinking about enjoying life as just the 2 of you again, you will still have one more not raised yet..... Bad idea me thinks...
mssexygirl27: You are both very young. You can have even 2 more kids if you wanted to. I can see this situation causing stress between you two. I know several couples personally where both the wives wanted to have more children but their husbands didn't because they thought they were too old. It's caused some problems. There will be resentment later on as you both grow older and your children leave home. I think you should really talk about this seriously. Good luck!
Justaolgoat: I am 60 soon to be 61. I work harder then 20 year olds sometimes. I just bought 9 acres of land here in Tennessee and sad to say I have no one to share it with.
Laceysworld: Mentally, people should think about stopping at 40yrs old because the decade difference makes it very hard to parent correctly........heck, my mother doesn't believe in Microwaves. She thinks the gov't invented them to give people cancer for money.
allexxa_31: That is right age is just a number if you love and you are loved, I am 37 and i love a man that is 33, the problem is I am white and he is black , his family doesn't want me cos of my color and is not fair. He also wants 3 children < what you people think about it < I am too old ? I am not showing my age < many people are telling me I look like a 28 maybe younger but not 37.
allexxa_31: I love him but he has so many secrets, I do not know what to do anymore, I am feeling so lost and lonely, we start to date since 2012, September but we are not living together yet
Laceysworld: If you have a kids you'll throw 10yrs of aging in one year though so I wouldn't count on your appearance to last.
Well, allex, it's obvious that you have doubts on the relationship. Isn't of trying to figure out if you should progress the relationship just enjoy your time together.
limitations: Perhaps there are still really controlled environments where much is hidden with lots of brainwashing. That would justify those of an age to think more for themselves who may not know how bad it is in this World. Other wise, it would be an awfully selfish, self-centred and irresponsible choice. Definitely in my mind. There really are too many people in this World for all the wrong reasons. Also who by choice are with seriously corrupt character. The number of seriously unwanted unloved children and others is beyond reason in this World. There is no doubt in my mind.
(Edited by limitations)
WkD_GeNeRaL: I've been out with many older women only 3 people around my age group I just find mentally I can't connect with people my age as I matured pretty quickly I also found the relationships far more exciting and engaging however they never lasted long due to the way others thought of us together and the preceptions... I've had some great experiences I dont what it is really
lindamomanwif: i took a bit of time to read like all of this and not a lot really said if they did i sorry if i miss it but if you feel that you can still bring the child up in a loving and caring family what does the age mean i talk to my hubby an he 42 now and i am 36 if we have more he ok, we also look at ti this way, tou can plant your seed in but it still up to God to let it take hold and let it become what its planed out to be so do not worry about your age it going to happen it will only cause God has let it happen
djnrf: How old is too old? Let me see.many say one is only as old as they feel.
Well, I 'feel with my fingers, so it al dependsu upon just what I hav been gting my fingers on lately for me it hs been nothing but antiques. so, you might say that I feel like a milion bucks,; Alll Green and Wrinkeled;/ wish I could be 'feeling a lot younger things.
(Edited by djnrf)
djnrf: One who fails to respond to anything of themselves is either inconsiderate to others, or is just too old to be any value to themselves or others.
HeyItsMia: It's not a good idea if even one parent is too old. When your son/daughter is 10 your husband will be 53, and most boys and girls might want more attention from both parents. When you're older you have less energy, if your husband is still working he will have no energy for the kids, plus lots of expenses, college, food, clothing, everything costs money, its going to be a trade, him earning money for your new kid, and the weight of taking care of the new born will be up to you, since he probably will not have enough energy as when he was younger. If you have a boy he might want to go to sports events with his father and play outside, and from my personal experience, when I was younger my dad was usually too exhausted to do anything with me, it was kind of sad. I don't know I just felt a lack of connection with him now, and more connection with my mom. I don't know I'm probably biased. You two will probably just have to decide for yourself, and it will require a lot of energy, time, and money if you want one mmore.
HeyItsMia: Jesus I didn't check how long ago this post was, I'm 8 years late, they probably have a new born already.
chrissy costanza: Well sorry I say it but ewwww, it is like you are in love on your father. Like i'm 25 my love is 50, he was 25 before I even was born so the idea of being with someone that much older is gross just gross. And the idea alone 27 years old on top of someone who is 43 so sick. Like i say at 14 to someone who is 30 also 16 years older, I love you lets go to bed that idea is how people even can support it Idk it is just too gross for words. Seriously a kid when he or she would be 10, your husband is 53 would you give him a heart attack. They say Americans are the most dumb and insane people well that isn't a lie, I may live in the USA but have Italian blood so my brains isn't like that ewwww. What age you 2 dated know if you a minor he was adult so pedo and not it is bad if older but 4-5 years maybe a bit more but 16 is gross he was a teen before you even was born it is like you say at 16 mmmmm babies are so hot, it is gross and yeah not everyone likes this who the fuck can even agree with this