Women who get pregnant to .......... Nosferatu: Women who get pregnant to collect welfare, benefits, child support, and to avoid work really piss me off. Nosferatu: Well it's going to come back and bite them in the ass. Getting used to charity programs is a bad idea because they are going to have to work eventually and they will be so unproductive they are going to be the first to get laid off or fired. breezy: that shit really pisses me off. i see lots of women with like 5 kids collecting welfare with no job and people that actually do need help do not get if. wjas: I agree that those that have kids just to get a hand out piss me off. Not only do they expect others to cover everything for them the teach their kids to do the same. I have seen one family where the mom actually beat up her oldest because she was grduation from highschool, got a job, and was planning to move out because she didn't like her moms life. Mom was mad because it ment less handouts for her. john1576: Guys. Let's remember that Welfare Moms make easy targets for hatred and criticism. As Winston Churchill said; 'a society is judged by how it treats it's most hated citizens'. A major cause of the so called 'welfare mentality' is the Post Industrial waist lands that many American and British cities have become. There should be a rule that after one child, the State will not pay for any more. twizzlermind1986: oddly enuf i just had this convo w my mother in law, people who do it intentionally should be flogged, and people who do it accidentally should get what i call a "stupid smack" a good wack in the forehead, in 2days society there is free BC everywhere, there is rarely an authentic "accident" i believe, i think people, men and women should b legally required to be on BC until after a test, or review of some sort has been made to determine the person is in a mentally, physically, and financially sound situation to rear a healthy child. breezy: you are absolutly right . i know a girl who is very very slow and she has 3 kids and keeps having more. now if she is not acting her age 27 how can she take care of 3 kids? her mentality leval is like a 12 year olds. racerjon: Some women are absolutely amazing. My sister-in-law works in labor and delivery at a hospital. A woman was brought in one night ready to give birth. After the usual questions, she was asked if she had a number where they could contact her husband/boyfriend and let them know she was there. Her response was "Well, I don't know his name or where he lives but I know where he hangs out and he always wears a red hat"! That is PATHETIC!!! mauzie_: don't think you should be coming down so hard on women though not our fault we are the ones who have the babies and therefore the consequences And no I have no children! pAuL DaVid: You're kinda missing the point of the topic there Mauzie. Look @ Nosterafu's first statement. mauzie_: true I guess but I felt I had to stand up for us And accidents do happen, alot of women do have to face the consequences of a moment of stupidity unlike men in alot of cases, what choice do they have they need financial help to raise them! Just saying not to tar all with the same brush Anyways , Nosferatu: I wasn't talking about women who accidentally got pregnant and then found out their boyfriend wasn't really in love with them. I'm talking about women who purposelly get pregnant to avoid work and to get compensation. L_Ash: I knew a friend of my mums that got pregnant to stay off work. She had 5 kids to 5 different fathers and when her youngest came close to turning 16 she suddenly came down with 'back problems'. She is now on a disability payment. Also, just to top off how much of a mooch she was, she had her boyfriends move in with her as 'boarders' so that she never had to claim she was in a relationship. For most of the time I knew her she had 2 government payments going into that house because apparently she wouldn't date a guy with a job either. Funny how people like this find each other. _Awhinanastyle_: Wow. I can see why someone would do that but honestly. For BENEFITS. I always thought that type of thing would always be for someone who was down on their luck and actually needed the help rather than for females who were trying to milk the system. Shame shame shame. | Parenting Chat Room 33 People Chatting Similar Conversations |