Be real!

Olaven
Olaven: Hello there

I just chatted around 5 minute with a woman. She seemed very nice and funny. (Lots of smileys, and it seemed, laughter, from her) Then suddenly, I was blocked. No explanation. (No, I didn't say anything sexual or respectless)

In another case, I was chatting for about a month with a very funny and nice woman. She contacted me just as much as I contacted her. Suddenly I was blocked.

I actually prefer THIS woman, that I met here at wireclub: Me: "Hi there" She answered: "bye ugly". She was so rude I had to laugh a bit. I was baffled. BUT: She was real!

I believe we are much like our closest friends are. And, if you're the kind of person that just dumps/blocks persons the moment you don't enjoy talking to them.. then how can you even have good friendships?.... It means that your friends, who may seems nice to you at all times, suddenly may dump you immediatly!

I've actually lost a bit trust in people in general here, at wireclub.. If I talk to someone that I after a time find boring, what do I do? I just talk less, and don't contact them! And you know what? They get the hint! And so do I.

If you choose to be shallow, you will have shallow friends yourself, which you can't trust. Be real instead!

Olav
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LoisS
LoisS: Dont you think that being fake is easier though...
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Lilith___
Lilith___: Just for the record, you are in the kindergarten "Wireclub".
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Aura
Aura: You either really know how to pick them, or are not as respectful as you think you are
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Angry Beaver
Angry Beaver: Just a hint... "show us yer tits" isn't considered respectful generally
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The giant midget
The giant midget: Beaver, I'm not showing you my tits .
Who to you think I am ?
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Angry Beaver
Angry Beaver: And here I was thinkin u was a free spirit mannnnnnnnnnnnnnnn peace and lurrrrrrrrrve lol
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SandraLee62
SandraLee62: I dunno, but it may have been that face you made next to
that wild boar head mounted on your wall.
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The giant midget
The giant midget: Nothing is free
Not even Herpies or crabs
Someone got to pay the drinks
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WonderWoman1
WonderWoman1: .. That's a boar? Why it's so humongous?!!!
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FunkyBiscuits82
FunkyBiscuits82: 1.) Don't trust anyone online.
2.) Understand that, if you do decide to trust someone online, you are taking many risks.
3.) The way people behave online, most likely isn't the way they behave irl. For instance: they cannot block someone irl.

I agree that if you're not interested in someone, it makes more sense to either tell the person that you're not interested, or to just speak with the person less or no more. Blocking seems a bit out of place, when it's just a "I'm just not that into you" type of thing.

But people can block for whatever reason they want. You shouldn't take it personally.
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Angry Beaver
Angry Beaver: I'm sorry, I have a girlfriend
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The Houndd
The Houndd: Wow dude! Really? I'm brand new here and after reading this I don't think I wanna waste my time with the women here now. Thanks for the heads up. That is some cold hearted shit. I feel for ya bro.
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