Fake people (Page 5) SillySally8: ohh hi ive been to the beach with my family iron...it was amazing  to watch my child, shes 13... just be.....you have no idea of my path or journey in life as you don't know me.....right?I have NOT attacked you, your interpretation of MY typed words is just that...YOUR interpretation.......funny that you speak of truth, actually I speak of truth ALL THE TIME....but you wouldn't know that as you don't know me: you have been rude to the responders, condescending(sp?), calling ppl out, putting ppl down, it is only MY observation of YOUR typed words iron....what you say in YOUR words is read by me and interpreted by me...so MY response is just that...mine....make sense? personally I don't give 2 flying shits who you date or don't date or why your here or not here, but keep in mind....if you post shit on or in a forum ....you are inviting ppl in to respond....you may not or don't have to agree with them ...but...................you should try to be respectfull, always....which is why I pointed out your back peddling....when you erase ppls comments...and I don't mean only the ones that don't support you.....it looks sketchy....if in fact you speak the truth? then let the truth stand for itself the rest will all sort itself out......now...if you would like to speak to ME...I have my settings set to open so I can chat with anyone...I hope this helps....I will leave you with this , my gift to you....INSECURITIES ARE LOUD, confidence is SILENT....peace brother iron SillySally8: cuz I said waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay back there.....im a lover not a fighter: have an amazing day  irondominator: Yes, I don't know who you are; I only know you by what you've said. Maybe you're not really like this in real life, I don't know. You've pretended about a lot of things so far. "I have NOT attacked you" Remember this comment? "nuff said iron.....shallow is as shallow does" It was the very first comment you made to me. It was the very first time I heard anything from you. It came unprovoked and went right on my page. You labeled me. That's attacking! I suppose if I just dropped by your page and said the same thing to you, It would be just fine, right? You got some nerve. "you have been rude to the responders, condescending(sp?), calling ppl out," Are you for real? Show me one thing I said to someone on here that was rude and I'll show you what was said to me to cause me to do that. No one gets to be rude to me AND THEN have impunity from the same treatment. Don't be a hypocrite! Also, don't pretend you haven't heard me explain this at least 5 times. You conveniently ignored what I said because you have nothing. If you're going to keep repeating the same accusations I've already disproved, then I am done with you. It's an exercise of futility. It's just a waste of my time. Maybe you just enjoy arguing with me for the sake of arguing. I don't; I value my time. "personally I don't give 2 flying shits who you date or don't date or why your here or not here," Then why are you even arguing with me. You dropped by MY PAGE and attacked me. If you did not care about who I date, why would you even waste your time commenting on MY PAGE expecting me to explain my actions on MY PAGE? I didn't invite you there! "when you erase ppls comments...and I don't mean only the ones that don't support you.....it looks sketchy" Here you go again. I've explained why I deleted that one user (Pauline35) that created a troll account just to harass and insult and you know that; you're pretending to make me look like I just delete comments made by people I don't agree with and that is a disingenuous lie. That troll account is gone now and since you harp on about it so much, I suspect it may have been YOU who created it. Why are you bringing up something that was in another thread anyway? Is it because it would be hard for you to pretend there? That was the thread about you calling me shallow. Here is a post I made to that troll account before I deleted it (it's still there in case anyone wants to see my evidence) Topic: Dating "@Pauline35 Most intelligent people have an argument as opposed to an ad hominem attack. If you are only interested in insulting me, create a thread such as "Why I hate irondominator" and have at it. I will leave your comment up here as a warning to you or others that if there are more hollow insults made here, they will be deleted." But that troll account just kept posting one line insults, over and over. I do not care about insults from trolls; I just don't like off topic garbage polluting my threads. "you should try to be respectfull" Yeah, I should just be quiet and let everyone piss on me. I was respectful to everyone that was respectful to me; most weren't. Go ahead and cut and paste something I said that was disrespectful and I'll paste the disrespectful comment they made to me that is right above it. "INSECURITIES ARE LOUD, confidence is SILENT" I was silent until you appeared on MY PAGE with a LOUD INSULT. irondominator: @Aura_ As promised, I will address what you said. "I've noticed this a lot. When the person do it, it's called "brutal honesty" when others do it, it's "personal attacks" An opinion is not brutal honesty because it is what another person claims based on their own pre-judgement without evidence; usually they are being disingenuous. If I had a fat belly showing in a pic and I asked if I was fat and you said I was, that would be brutal honesty because it is something that everyone can see with their very own eyes. I wouldn't be upset because I would be in total agreement with you; in fact, I would be upset if you said I wasn't because you would clearly be insulting my intelligence by lying to spare my feelings. Many people would get upset because they can't handle the truth. I would only get upset if you lied. If someone looked at my profile pic and said "if you suck your stomach in any further, your belly button is going to fall out of your butt", then that would not be brutal honesty; it would be an attacked based on zero evidence, which is clearly being disingenuous. You cannot possibly tell whether I'm sucking in my gut or not in that pic and if I posted a pic with my shirt off, you would clearly see how wrong that is; but if I did that I would get a flood of narcissistic claims that would excuse the person who made the original claim that I was sucking in my stomach. Like I said, cut one head off and two more grow in its place. It's difficult to defend yourself when there are so many attacking at the same time and it's even more difficult when they make the same claims over and over; makes defending yourself a full time job. Most people could not handle all the attacks that are given to me because they're not as strong as me. Aura: I have to disagree with you there. Voicing an opinion can be honest or dishonest, without consideration of being factually right or wrong. I have to go on the assumption that everyone thinks their opinion is right. It would be kind of silly to hold an opinion you yourself don't think is right-- if that were the case, why hold on to the opinion? But when your opinion starts to change, yet you are still voicing your previous opinion because you don't want to admit to having had a opinion before you now think is wrong, then you are being dishonest. Or if you don't voice your opinion at all for whatever reason, then you are being dishonest. This is especially relevant when we are getting into subjective areas; concepts like "hot", or how one perceives other people's characters, or even pineapple on pizza. There is no factual right or wrong. Only honest or dishonest opinions. So someone thinks you're shallow or sucking in your belly...they probably actually think that. It's their honest opinion. They would still think that if they hadn't told you. And it's very likely not even the worst thing someone has ever thought of you. Overall people are pretty dishonest with their opinions. At least these people were being honest. irondominator: @Aura_ Okay, so if I made a comment to you saying "why are you hiding your fat ass by not showing it?" Would you say that's brutal honesty? Obviously, someone would only say something like that to insult you. Note that I am not implying that you have a fat ass as I would never make that implication without: 1) Evidence of that particular attribute (actually seeing it in a photo). 2) A specific request from you to give you my opinion on that attribute. If I made a comment to you about your ass without BOTH of the two rules above, it would be clearly speculative based on a desire to insult and nothing more. You would have to be disingenuous to disagree with that because if you didn't, then you wouldn't have a problem with someone going around Wired randomly calling people fat for no good reason. I used this hypothetical example to demonstrate the difference between brutal honesty and brutal insulting. I do not think you have a fat ass because I have never seen it and I would never say that to you even if I saw a pic that showed it as fat because you never asked for my opinion on it and I still respect you. "So someone thinks you're shallow or sucking in your belly...they probably actually think that. It's their honest opinion. They would still think that if they hadn't told you." People are free to think what they want and they have every right to; however, when they tell someone that without being asked, it is OBVIOUSLY to insult them. If everyone told everyone else what they really thought of them, everyone would hate everyone. (Edited by irondominator) SillySally8: after reading YOUR profile...my impression and my interpretation was hmmmm that's shallow...yes that was what I said....please peel back the layers iron....get to the root of the issue for the love of all that is good in this world..... have faith you will succeed in meeting YOUR perfect woman, here on wire.....its not really a swipe left or swipe right kinda chat site ....but use I how YOU want.....my opinion is just that...MY opinion...... ohhh and one more gift? the opinion of others is irrelevant...who YOU feel, doncuct yourself, present yourself is YOURS and YOURS alone.....lol........I feel like I should charge you for this information tbh.....this is some good shit here if you would just LISTEN....when YOU ARE READY....until then.....I wish you peace brother iron one race...the HUMAN race...the good the bad and the ugly.... SillySally8: ty:.....I come by it honestly....have you ever met my sweet ole grandma?  irish through and through.......she taught me to live by the golden rule...even when life was kicking you in the kitty.......................TREAT OTHERS HOW YOU WANT THEM TO TREAT YOU.....in todays society we have grown and have learned new lingo ...but the core of it is and I mean the core..................................................................................................................................................................................the very fkn foundation of WHO we are comes from what we were taught during those first 5 years so very long ago.......thank god I had some good mentors to walk beside me or I wouldn't be who I am today I call those life long ppl my angels....who lifted me up when I was too hurt, broken, scared, afraid, fearfull to fly......NOW? I am like an Eagle ty for LISTENING to me: SillySally8: she passed at age 98...AMAZING woman ....you are lucky to have such women in your life border: irondominator: @SillySally8 Why did you delete your other comment and replace it with something else? My mistake, I thought you deleted it. I did not ask for your opinion on MY page. Calling someone shallow is an insult or have you not been taught manners when you were a child? Calling someone shallow is no different than calling someone fat or ugly; it is Libel and some people actually sue others for doing something like that if it was printed in a newspaper about them. What were you trying to accomplish by going to MY PAGE and making that Libelous statement? Was it to teach me how to be more like you? Is that your job? Obviously it was an attempt to shame me, so I decided to do the exact same thing to you in retaliation. Again, feel free to agree to disagree and never to speak of each other again; it will save me so much time and energy writing things that go in one ear and out the other. (Edited by irondominator) SillySally8: lol....for the record......................I DONT KNOW HOW TO COPY AND PASTE my friends help me....my technological side of my brain was destroyed...ive learned to embrass it and my family understands me...that's is ALL THAT MATTERS TO ME lmfao:.......set YOUR shit to private then...we always have a choice iron....I need to cut the grass now that the rain from last night has dryed...I will check back in though...its kinda cute how you have to be right..and feel the need to defend EVERY word and PROVE yourself.......hold on it gets better ..........brb irondominator: "set YOUR shit to private then...we always have a choice iron." I shouldn't have to do that. If you're going to shame others (especially on their private page), don't call them disrespectful when they do it back to you because it makes you a hypocrite. You want to have your cake and eat it too.  LoisS: Makes more sense to say "You cant eat your cake and have it too" My first comment here was nothing more then that, just a comment after reading your OP and then checking out your page. Just made one eyebrow rise, ya know  . Good deal you decided to stay and speak your piece.  calybonos: If any sexy classy lady reads this, I would totally be willing to hook you up with some nicely sculpted proboscis lovin... serious like, not Snuffleupagus or the most interesting ham in the world, but as a young guy with raging hormones and built like a Volkswagen Beetle in great shape, all things considered, with no leaks, no body damage, and original paint.. And I'm supersmart and funny and charming and a great conversationalist... and humble as all hell! I'm so laid back and on the ball it's shidiculous. And I invent words! And whether or not you are that special lady, I would like to offer all the ladies of this great country pretty much the same offer. And I'm not trying to make money off this venture... nay nay... I work pro boner. (Edited by calybonos) irondominator: @LoisS Not sure why you would even say that in public, but if you do, at least mention it where I made the statement, not on a public thread that is about something else. I'd love to delete all the threads that have nothing to do with the OP, but if I did that, sadly the only post that would remain is the topic. There was not a single post in this thread by anyone that was on topic; in fact after your post, the topic of the thread became "Let's all attack irondominator". No one posting even bothered to read the OP. This happened in a lot of my threads. Might as well splice them altogether and re-title the thread "open season on irondominator"; at least everything would then be on topic.  StephyLee: Sir, that's not how social media works. The world is changing everyone seems to be connected with each other. We feel close to one another mentally, but physically, we are disconnecting. That's why I founded a company to break this disconnection. Anyway the internet can be a dangerous place, so people tend to not meet up with people online. LoisS: @ Iron....Oh calm the hell down. I was being light hearted. That's not good enough either. If it wasn't for certain people playing in your threads with derailed comments, who the hell would you even be talking to now? Your threads are boring and if you noticed....now there is engaging going on. Pretty sure no one would give 3 shites if you deleted anything. irondominator: @StephyLee - Since this thread is completely off topic and is never coming back and your post is actually interesting, the new title will be the use of social media. "We feel close to one another mentally, but physically, we are disconnecting." Everyone has their own use for social media. Some enjoy typing things into a keyboard to people they don't know and never plan to, while others enjoy kayaking and partying with someone they met online. To each their own, right? "That's why I founded a company to break this disconnection." Sounds interesting. Why don't you create a thread about this? I think it definitely deserves it's own thread and hopefully no one will hijack it. I'd really love to learn more about it. It will also help promote that business of yours. "the internet can be a dangerous place, so people tend to not meet up with people online." That's pretty much a cliche, Steph. Logically it's not true. The whole world is a dangerous place. So then how are people ever going to meet? There's only 2 ways to meet; online or in person. Two decades ago, meeting in person was the only way to meet. If you meet online first, you can at least learn more about that person before meeting them in person as opposed to knowing absolutely nothing about them when you meet them in the physical world. The internet is the best way to meet someone as you will learn a little about them before hand and it is the way most people meet these days. The internet is just a tool to help you find what you're looking for instead of leaving that to chance. | Off Topic Chat Room Similar Conversations |
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