STILETTO HEELS.... uglycow10: What is it that so fascinates men about high heels...especially in the colour, red? I have found that it matters not, whether the shoes adorn the feet of old, young, fat or model-thin women...the mere sight of those stilettos seem to titillate their very sou l.What's up with that, my men friends? Enlighten me....! uglycow10: CHARLIE: I agree with you 100% ! When I started thinking about why men stare at women in heels, I myself began, not just looking, but paying particular attention, and this is what I discovered: Especially if the woman is wearing trousers or a tight-fitting dress, by wearing heels, each step taken by that woman will accentuate the muscles in her haunches, thighs and calves... and If the shoes are red, that's the icing on the cake. We women just love shoes, and sometimes are totally oblivious to the legions of admiring eyes that get so much pleasure out of seeing us stride by in our high heels...... texas_charlie56: I have to admit it is almost a fetish ---It stimulates the senses and imagination to know a woman knows she is attracting the attention and how she effects those looking and hopefully it makes her feel even better about herself uglycow10: TEXAS: I am not so sure that women even realize that they are attracting the attention of men as they breeze by in their stilettos. Being of that gender myself, I can assure you that we buy shoes because we just love how they look with our outfits. They also just simply put a smile on our faces. However, i have also done some reading and I now understand that some men are sexually aroused by the sight of high heels....and that's fine, if that is what floats your boat. All around, there are no losers. uglycow10: I have heard that term soe whew before.. It is fascinating to me that some men pay such great attention to shoes, and the way n which they adorn the feet of women... gigglezlots: I love wearing heels for 2 reasons. First, I think they make my legs look sexy. I'm a little on the heavy side, so a well turned calf always looks good, no matter what. The second reason I love wearing heels? I AM SHORt. uglycow10: All great reasons to wear heels!. It matters not what height one is , or one's weight. Just the right pair of heels will work unbelievable magic. Also, key to wearing heels, is knowing how to walk in them...how to sache in them...how to move those hips, just so! Nothing worse than an older woman, simply abandoning her femininity and resorting to the usual "man's haircut" and the unattractive, clunky heels or ugly flat shoes. I am a woman of a certain age and swear by my stilettos....there is nothing sexier in footwear. Uncle_Vinnie: Gigz, just HOW many times have I reminded you that good things come in small packages? Or, in your case, a MAGNIFICENT thing (woman) is a "small package"? uglycow10: texas_charlie56 Yes, it is quite a sight..and my fave colour is, red However, .when it is time to give them up...I shall...but for now, I am able to walk the walk and showcase both the legs and the beautiful shoes. I smile as I write these words, because a lot of younger guys reading this, find nothing sexy about an older woman strutting in stilettos. However, I am happy to report that there are still men of all ages out there, who are true appreciators & connoisseurs of women...regardless of stature or age. So to any of you men who have never given it a thought, try checking out the next woman you see sporting some high heels.Check out the swagger, from head to toe. It will be indeed...A DELECTABLE EXPERIENCE. Trust me on that one, gentlemen.! fredchurch: women wear them because they know its a turn on for some men and women like to tease us. uglycow10: Actually Fred, some women might be guilty of wearing those seductive-looking stilettos in order to tease you men. However, for the most part, we buy shoes because the style, colour, shape ...just the feeling we get from imagining them on our feet, is quite an exhilarating experience. So you see, it is more for our pleasure that we purchase our stilettos....and the side effect of wearing them, is sometimes the pleasure some men derive from looking at them. gigglezlots: Oh, Vinnie! Thank you! The next time we have coffee together I will make sure to wear the new pair I picked up at the Vaca Outlets. Can I sit in your lap again? Uncle_Vinnie: You certainly can, little girl. And if you are good, I will feed you some yummy cookies or brownies to go with the coffee. calybonos: Do they make a high heeled version of clown shoes? Because you know what hey say about women with big feet... | Off Topic Chat Room Similar Conversations |