Sexting Cheating or Not? (Page 3) texas_charlie56: HMMM Amazing the different opinions... Why not consider sexting or any of the cyber sexes as like writing a erotic novel... uglycow10: That's all well & good and there are lots of people who love the romance novels....but I prefer non-fiction....history books. uglycow10: I totally agree with you but if both or one person is married... Is it cheating? I think that it all comes down to moral values . I was chatting with someone who was married... And it bothered him to tge hikt. He felt as though he were cheating....and there was not even any sex cgat! uglycow10: to IKR: I agree.that if you feel that you are not cheating you should be able to just tell your partner about...but most cannot! ,,,for obvious reasons. That is exactly how my chat pal felt.He was keeping our chats private...not sharing with his wife that he was conversing and laughing with another female. His logis was that because he could not share that knowledge...and had to hide to chat with me....that he obviously was doing something wrong. In the end, I suppose that it comes down to what parameters you have set between you and your partner. clean non-sexual chat might not bother some people, but I guarantee you that a lot of others would be totally bothered by it texas_charlie56: I agree there has to be complete trust and understanding...I have found very few women that would be that understanding.. uglycow10: For the most part, I believe that it is our nature to be naturally suspicious. The bottom line is this: whether it is a man or a woman, if finding out that their partner is chatting online with another persons, is going to devastate them...then by all means....that chatting should not continue. I was sad to see my guy go...but I fully understood that it had to be done...and why. laterdays2009: sexting is cheating unless you and your partner have agree its ok to do it. Always be open about what you are doing with other people to your partner number one rule ! | Off Topic Chat Room Similar Conversations |