We prefer to be call Universal Intelligence (Page 3) sherryeee: with disabilities disagree, and find some of the language used to describe their disabilities to be highly offensive. sherryeee: Upvoted by <Matt-Hastie>, Father of two. David-Stewart-8> has 340+ answers </David-Stewart-8/answers/Parenting> in </Parenting sherryeee: In addition to the excellent response posted by Matt Hastie </Matt-Hastie> I would add the comment that there is often no correct answer. sherryeee: I teach in a school for students with physical and multiple disabilities and a lot of people ask me sherryeee: What should I call people who are... you know..." (frequently the can't even finish the sentence) sherryeee: There seems to be an underlying assumption that people with disabilities have regular Annual sherryeee: disabilities range from people who were disabled from birth (Cerebral Palsy etc) people with degenerative sherryeee: conditions (Muscular dystrophy etc) and people who have acquired a disability through an injury of some kind. They all have a range of experiences and a range of different sherryeee: values, ideals and beliefs. Consequently they want to be called different things. Some like to sherryeee: claim derogatory terms like "retarded" in the same way the gay community claimed "queer" and sherryeee: take the sting out of an insult by wearing the name with pride. Other's think this is a terrible idea. sherryeee: Wobbly" it's a beautiful term that she's adopted for herself but clearly not for everyone. sherryeee: I've told people this and it's annoyed them because the find it inconvenient and confusing which I sherryeee: have to say doesn't elicit any degree of sympathy at all from me. If this confusion causes people sherryeee: to ignore the disability and instead focus on the person then that's the best result as far as I'm sherryeee: "Developmentally disabled." Some prefer "developmentally challenged" but I think that goes sherryeee: goes too far down the curve between intellectual honesty and political correctness. (Similarly with sherryeee: I think you're right that ADHD or dyslexia is a "learning disability" but not a "developmental | Off Topic Chat Room Similar Conversations |