anyone dealing with teenager's breaking up

harlett anathema
harlett anathema: for the first time ???? i have neighbors with teenagers and young adults.. of both genders..
apparently the just reached high school teenage girl,has just broken up with her childhood sweetheart...and HE is besides himself with some serious grief he can not get passed...

they get too screaming and yelling along with all of her siblings at HIM around 11 pm... once a week sense the break up.....The agony in this young man voice is heart rendering.. i can't stand it for him.....

I can still hear him screaming in agony at how sorry he is and that he loves her with all of his heart,apparently she is itching too him too death with some minor none sense,she decided too have a problem with on top of what ever else is going on...

and it sounds as if this young man has taken a beating or two from the older brother,for coming too the house and trying too get back with....

it's just awful....and no i have no personal experience with social experiences like this...i'm one those who just walks away when she see's it time too walk,move on to what ever & who ever is next....
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Becca76
Becca76: harlett....your sympathy is misplaced....he sounds like a total nutcase...
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RUBYRUBY (Wireclub Moderator)
RUBY: i think at that age we're all like that
well at least I was..cried for a guy for weeks and maybe even months
now probably would think like you said ..just move on
all depends on the relationship
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harlett anathema
harlett anathema: i can still hear the pain and agony in that young man's voice pleading with his childhood girl friend too take him back...

he is anything but a nut case.. if we were speaking about a twenty something or older i'd have never mentioned this... this is a a 15 or 16 year old who has lived in this neighborhood all of his life and been friends with the girl...for all of this time...

i get she has right too move on...it's just painful too hear in the quiet of 11 o'clock pm...
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Becca76
Becca76: Well i've never resorted to harassing someone....no matter how heartbroken i may of been....Typical control freak behaviour that is. N if you want to dispute that just because I've said it ....go ahead....it doesn't matter to me if you want to look silly!...
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harlett anathema
harlett anathema: a compassion human being no matter their gender always appears silly & foolish too whom isn't....

& so what of it....silly is..as silly does..just as my sympathies are extended too whom ever i choose too extend them too...

how is a very very young and inexperienced young man labeled a control freak by the likes of yourself.."R".. when he is reacting too his first and only break up with whom he lost virginity with.. and begging for a explanation and reconciliation....

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Becca76
Becca76: Harlett....that is not normal behaviour...Its really basic stuff....wrong from right.... he should know that at his age....so should you.
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harlett anathema
harlett anathema: do you forget your speaking with a sociopath..who recognizes one when she is speaking with another....

for me not being the least upset over a break up be normal..for almost everyone else it is a big deal...

have i mentioned that both of these young folks are awfully good looking teens...and there must be several teenage girls who'd cherish his affections ....

haven't you ever had boyfriends ever chase you down and around too be with you some more....

and what pray tell me out loud and clearly if you would "R" what exactly is wrong un-normal for a in love teen age boy,who has been dreaming of being this girls night in shinning armor and making a good living for them both too enjoy the benefits from...


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harlett anathema
harlett anathema: bet it's gonna be just as noisy around your place when ever Your very Beautiful baby Girl starts letting go of boyfriends.....
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Becca76
Becca76: Harlett....lets just check the facts ....he's turning up, late at night, knowing she doesn't want him too, n that he's gonna upset her by shouting and screaming, but he thinks ...i'll go anyway? N you don't see anything wrong with that?? Well I've got a 15 yo son n if I found out he was doing that....first i'd be furious, then i'd be worrying.
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Becca76
Becca76: If it had only happened one time...then that could be forgiven....but every week? for how many weeks??
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harlett anathema
harlett anathema: the young man is working his first after school JOB ..... and they must still be talking..when no else is listening..so twice he has shown up after work...and hey 11 pm is not late hours for that particular do as please teenage house....

of course i start too fret...i can now tell you the difference between a 22,45,calibur hand weapon going off.. & difference in a rifle,shot gun.. which by the way fire off from that very house....when ever they're in the mood to target practice...
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calybonos
calybonos:
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Becca76
Becca76: It wont be as noisy at my place because for one thing, I'll make sure my girls understand that kind of behaviour shouldn't be tolerated....n id demonstrate this by having the police remove them if needed.
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harlett anathema
harlett anathema: Are You saying "R" your not even gonna let the just ditched fella ever ask why they were ditched..

then golly gee wizers.."R" the poor fella just had the Girl of dreams ditch him and now Your gonna ruin the rest of his life with having him labeled a stalker....Your worse than merely being cruel...
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Becca76
Becca76: TWICE???!!! LOL you said once a week since the break up....made me think it had been going on for some time?!
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Becca76
Becca76: You painted him in a bad light ....then u say u feel for him!! LOL
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harlett anathema
harlett anathema: they just broke up...........it happened twice.....

...@ "R" You just wanted too bicker with me.....read into what i said as You choose...
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harlett anathema
harlett anathema: Hey CALY...lovely yet dark poem.....where does the poet in you come from...
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calybonos
calybonos:
One looks at the painting and sees the human tragedy in all it's glory and folly.

Another sees an twisted landscape that must be destroyed.

Still another,sees themself.......
a mirror of self contemplation,or a view from the window of a fast moving train.
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calybonos
calybonos:

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Becca76
Becca76: Im not bickering....Im right....you dont have an argument really...im just telling you.right from wrong as you dont seem to know...tho i might of known it would be a twisted account of what has happened....The chances are....nothing happened at all did it
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Becca76
Becca76: LOL that song sounds OLD alrite ... who sung it??
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harlett anathema
harlett anathema: ah ha Your reminiscing....How sweet....Caly..... for sharing...
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calybonos
calybonos: Your story reminded me of a young lovers pain.
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harlett anathema
harlett anathema: "R" You just don't do off Your rocker very well....Your right and i am always wrong..
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